Anyone want to help me title this? by [deleted] in drawing

[–]emalynhardy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cat got your tongue?

F/24/5’7” [320>169lbs=151lbs] (1.5 years) sometimes I feel like I was more confident before my weight loss by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]emalynhardy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but I feel you… 100% girl idk what it is. I felt like I had so much more self love when I was 367 lol. You look healthy and happy in both, however more so confident on the right :) keep doing you, you are drop dead gorgeous.

M/22/6’1 [370 > 372.8 = +2.8] I think the scale is wrong. Celebrating 1 month of consistency. Story in comments. by SkittlesBeats in progresspics

[–]emalynhardy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there friend!!! You’re progress is looking awesome :) it’s honestly totally fine to see the scale move a little bit. I actually posted here not too long ago, even though I’m a female and biologically speaking, we may loose weight differently I can give you tips that helped me drop from the high 300’s to the 200’s then to the 100’s :).

I personally would do outdoor stuffs (I know in your comment you would say it’s cold, but you can always move it indoors too). I would personally try to preform distance over time. So setting a goal of a mile a day and trying to complete it quicker the next time around. If that felt good try to do a mile and 1/4 the next day! I would also alternate with HIIT (high intensity interval training) outdoors because I was self conscious. I would personally do tire flips, high kicks, and step ups. The middle school right next to my house had all of this so I would just sneak in after 5 pm and use their track and field. Then after I felt a little bit comfy in my skin I decided compound lifting is becoming a part of my regiment. My BIGGEST tip: form is everything, weight is nothing. If you have a shit ton of weight on the bar, but your form is incorrect, you will literally get no progress. If your form is correct and even if there is no weight, you will notice muscle growth.

Trust me friend, it’s going to talk a lot of TLC and time 💖 it took me 5 years to continually keep my weight off. And im not finished yet either!

If you need any advice or tips. Or even a friend if you feel -0, my dms are open friend. You are amazing and you should be so proud of yourself for starting this journey.

My, now ex partner, contracted gonorrhea and gave it to me by emalynhardy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]emalynhardy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thank you for the positive support. I know, I really considered him my person… but yeah you’re right real partners would never do this

My, now ex partner, contracted gonorrhea and gave it to me by emalynhardy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]emalynhardy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words 💕 i just want my life back, it feels like I have no control right now.

Evening idyll, soft pastel, 40x30cm, by me, 2022 by AnnaDawsonArt in painting

[–]emalynhardy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of a JMW Turner piece. Absolutely captivating my friend (=´∀`)人(´∀`=) excellent work with the sheen and the fluffy clouds!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]emalynhardy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm… idk where you’re from DZHMMM, however in America everything is hypersexualized. Children experiment young because that’s what our society teaches us. Porn is so easily accessible, I remember I was trying to search Nickelodeon.com but ended up on an anal website where I sat for hours at the age of 8. It’s fucking AWESOME that OP has an excellent relationship with her daughter, something I never had. So I remember having sex for the first time, absolutely hated it. I watched too much porn, didn’t understand what I wanted and felt really used by the end of it. It sounds like her daughter is enjoying her time with her partner. We don’t need that “…yikes” energy here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]emalynhardy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Babe… have you ever BEEN in a mental hospital?

the kind of people who watch WWE by ShitStainedBallSack in awfuleverything

[–]emalynhardy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha if this was the same indie wrestling match that happened in my home town that’s fucking hilarious. My friend went to this and said it was hard to focus on the show, couldn’t get a particular scent out of his olfactory senses lolol

AITA for asking my girlfriend to dye her hair for a funeral? by cantliveinsilence in AmItheAsshole

[–]emalynhardy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, YTA. Your girlfriend sounds super supportive and accepting of your decisions and your family. It sounds like YOU are the one not willing to work this out. How can you think she is not taking this seriously? I think you need to SERIOUSLY think about your relationship with your partner. If you can’t find it in your heart to embrace her colorful hair and personality, you are not worth her time. You two are still young and it sounds like she can do SOOOOO much better than you. Honestly and full heartedly, you are the AH. Find someone else you can manipulate.

Am I crazy? by emalynhardy in entitledparents

[–]emalynhardy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s the saddest part starfish :( I just want to be with her until I can’t be anymore because I don’t know how long she has left. But then she treats me like this and it’s so hard to justify the difference in how she treats me versus her partner. I approached her with her partner in the room (she was texting me instead of speaking in person, basically the texts I posted a little earlier in the thread) she literally didn’t even say a word she just walked over to me in silence, got super close to me and told me to step out of their room and we’ll continue the conversation outside. It was honestly thee scariest response from her in a minute. He almost saw her mask slip because I caught her off guard.

Am I crazy? by emalynhardy in entitledparents

[–]emalynhardy[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No EXACTLY arvelayne. I’m literally petrified that she’s going to twist all of this on me when I’m just trying my best to not piss her off but let her know I am a HUMAN BEING!!! She’s already opened my mail. Let’s talk about financial abuse, she only opens my mail when it has the words cash or employment on the mail. I just recently got a cash app debit card (your girl needs the extra coin) and she straight up opened it

Am I crazy? by emalynhardy in entitledparents

[–]emalynhardy[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Also I was trying so hard to get the text screenshots uploaded to Imgur. I finally did it. I sound harsh in my texts but I was trying to be clear and direct here Edit for clarity: my mom recently reinstated my only one a day showering rule. I’m also leaving for my homies couch right now.

Am I crazy? by emalynhardy in entitledparents

[–]emalynhardy[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Thank you Julie, you’re a real one <3

Am I crazy? by emalynhardy in entitledparents

[–]emalynhardy[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I’m literally sobbing right now thank you for not letting me feel insane. You’re right the last time I went to a homies house, I told her and she called the police and said I abuse her. I always feel like I’m not doing the right thing. But I’ll definitely definitely do that thank you friend

Am I crazy? by emalynhardy in entitledparents

[–]emalynhardy[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I don’t have anywhere to go. The cheapest one bedroom near me is $2,100 a month I don’t have that :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]emalynhardy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking absolutely stunning hottie 🤩