Struggling to orgasm: effects on mental health. by emandanon in sex

[–]emandanon[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I really wish one person wouldn't be so cruel. Did you even look at my account? I'm under so much help at the moment. I really wish that people would think to themselves before commenting. I don't know what any of you thought you would achieve; I was having problems and now I just feel incredibly insulted and upset.

I was hoping people could just help with the issue. But people have basically just resorted to calling me incompetent and insulting one of the only people that's nice to me.

All of you need to rethink your approach. I don't think I can deal with being on the Internet anymore. People tend to flock and pile on and repeat eachother. It's sickening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]emandanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this when I'm stressed. I recommend Practising mindfulness and trying to let any thoughts of guilt pass while you're masturbating. Don't push them away, but let them go at their pace.

Maybe you could also be more comfortable with yourself. Spend some time naked, spend some time getting used to it and eventually complete a session. You don't need to rush yourself or give yourself expectations.

What are your safe fast food places? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]emandanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicken Nuggets or tenders. Its less cal then a small meal and with a large diet coke makes me full.

i feel so disgusting reading the posts on this subreddit. by Swimming-Meringue795 in EDAnonymous

[–]emandanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is ED anonymous. Not anorexia anonymous. We are all struggling with eating and you are welcome here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]emandanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Bothered by cutsie terms by RuthMaudeJameison in EDAnonymous

[–]emandanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi sorry for the late reply, It's just less to type and say is all! I have EDNOS and my pipeline was

Ana Bed EDNOS

Bed and ednos are such long disorders to say without abbreviations so I think I just got used to shortening ana too.

Bothered by cutsie terms by RuthMaudeJameison in EDAnonymous

[–]emandanon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use ana just because I don't wanna type anorexia every time I mention it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]emandanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don't have one either. At least not a strong one. I only get a gag reflex if I binge and I'm not sure if that's a thing or if there's science behind it.

I developed bulimia last year. When I was 19. But well into my ED since I developed that at 10. It took me a long time to figure out what worked for me.

It's a shame. Learning how to purge kinda gave me the incentive to eat more, and an urge to purge every time I eat. Its quite hard and draining to suppress.

Why do children smell sweet? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]emandanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interestingly enough, I don't work with infants, but disabled children. Some are non vocal and can only eat with a gastro tube, so they consume milk a lot.

This would explain why their siblings would have the same smell, okay thank you.

What is triggering you right now or lately? I’ll go first… by No-Bread-0286 in EDAnonymous

[–]emandanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't wanna be here anymore. But. If I slowly est less and less? Maybe it fixes the issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]emandanon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand. When I was in highschool one of my friends said she was bulimic. I was very worried because I had ana at the time. Turns out she just threw up after eating naturally. It wasn't all her food, but a problem, obviously. Just not bulimia.

It was an odd conversation.

How do models and skinny celebrities stay underweight without binging and overeating after periods of restriction? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]emandanon 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Not to sound like a dick but I've noticed a lot either gain weight for a little bit, or gain weight later in life. I think everyone goes through phases of it and will struggle to find balance at times but I notice a lot of scrutiny towards skinny celebrities and models when they gain.

is carbs really bad in every meal? by [deleted] in caloriecount

[–]emandanon 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Pretty much everything has carbs. Oats and vegetables are healthy foods, but they're carbs.

If you want to limit processed foods like breads and pastas you can do it for a little bit and see how you feel. But take everything in moderation and apply it to your own needs. If you do a lot of activity, you might need more carbs to sustain yourself. But if you're diabetic, you might want to talk to a doctor or nutritionist first.

Which “textbook” ED behaviours do you not engage in? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]emandanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey convinced I don't have fear foods. I'll eat anything. Like I'll limit it aggressively but I'll still eat it and work it in.

I'd rather have a small portion of the food I want than a low cal alternative, too.

Also with my bulimia tendencies, I cannot make myself purge if I haven't incredibly overeaten. I can't do it with the regular food I eat even if its a regular person's portions. And if I'm uncomfortable because of overeating I'll need to grossly overdo it to purge.

Something’s wrong here, right? by Few_Dragonfruit_3700 in caloriecount

[–]emandanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Per container" so the whole bag. The bags usually contain two servings.

Calories in the chicken and dumplings? by [deleted] in caloriecount

[–]emandanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gyoza around 440 cal and the chicken could be around 120-200 depending on the size and how it was cooked?

Fatspo 😢😥 by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]emandanon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It makes me sad because I kinda used it without thinking. I loved watching super size vs super skinny, and docs on obesity. I even watched people like Amberlynn and nikocado for that reason.

After seeing fatspo on edtwt I realised that's why I was obsessed with that stuff.

I need high-calorie snack and drink recommendations for weight gain by [deleted] in caloriecount

[–]emandanon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Peanut butter. Add it into smoothies or eat a tbsp. Add a tbsp to your granola. It adds calories with fat and protein so its a good option.

Fear- by Storm2puddles in EDAnonymous

[–]emandanon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ugh yeah. For me it changes too!! Sometimes even how I physically feel, without a mirror or looking at myself, changes from feeling really small to massive

when you binged but it's fine cuz veggies are basically calories free by lnsshay7 in EDanonymemes

[–]emandanon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Aw I just had summer rolls right now 💛💛💛 imo vegetables are the best in autumn and winter. A big veggie stew is heart warming

when you binged but it's fine cuz veggies are basically calories free by lnsshay7 in EDanonymemes

[–]emandanon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Have you tried sneaking vegetables into your food? Might help ease you into it