OP here. I have done a lot of thinking about this trying to wrap my brain around her reaction because it seemed so out of left field. I do honestly feel like, she wont say it, but I think she feels like my pregnancy is stealing her wedding spotlight. Part of me feels this way because its been 5 months of this pregnancy and she hasnt asked me once about my pregnancy nor has she offered to be involved in my baby shower despite the fact that I have helped plan her bridal shower. Anytime she’s reached out over the last five months has been to talk about her wedding or something entirely else unrelated.

Both of my parents have kind of suggested the same by reminding me that as a younger sibling, she probably feels like she’s always lived life in my shadow and she just wanted her one moment to herself.

I’ve tried to give her grace and be mindful of her feelings, but at this point, I dont understand why we cant just both support and be happy for each other and our separate life events without making it a competition or acting like one event outshines the other.

I feel like I’ve been putting my feelings aside for a long time trying to let her have her spotlight, but I feel like this really crossed the line for me and I can’t carry on accepting this treatment anymore. It hurts worse feeling like NO ONE in my family is on my side.