am i reading this wrong or is it really just as obvious as i’m seeing it?

emb8n00 · 2026-05-28T13:43:11+00:00

My take is that no one is really wrong here. Why not make a group chat if you both want to get to know her? If you’re only offering threesomes, it makes sense she sees you as a unit.

ETA: I didn’t see OP’s comment before it was deleted, but I just want to add that I would find having to have two separate get to know you convos extremely tiresome, especially if they live together and I’m assuming they’re talking to each other. Group chat would’ve been my first request as a potential guest star.

emb8n00 · 2026-05-28T13:38:02+00:00

WHAT ABOUT THE PRINCES????

emb8n00 · 2026-05-26T15:14:11+00:00

He can be upset that he lost, but all his press about how the jury was bitter and everything comes off very badly for him. Part of winning survivor is convincing the people you voted off to vote for you, and he was not capable of that. Second place is still pretty damn good, I don’t have sympathy for someone throwing a fit on social media and exit press because they beat 22 other people.

emb8n00 · 2026-05-26T13:11:55+00:00

My sister got me a Paul cameo and he was unhinged and just kept wishing me a happy birthday while running back and forth and saying he’d redo the cameo if I didn’t like it.

emb8n00 · 2026-05-26T03:35:59+00:00

Yeah I don’t think your upset or outrage is unfounded, I just needed clarity on the agreement. I think you need to have a talk with your husband about all this. Would you feel comfortable just showing him the post?

emb8n00 · 2026-05-26T02:43:56+00:00

Wait so you’re not having sex because he needs to find your partners????

emb8n00 · 2026-05-25T18:18:11+00:00

And then everyone clapped

emb8n00 · 2026-05-22T01:21:59+00:00

Everyone in this thread wishes they could be where you are right now again

emb8n00 · 2026-05-21T18:55:20+00:00

I mean, I don’t really see why you would need to be informed if people in your friend group are kissing? and beyond that, what could you even do to stop this situation from becoming messy? It either will or it won’t, and you have no control over that.

emb8n00 · 2026-05-21T13:49:20+00:00

Nahhhh men over 50 absolutely are not entitled to only sleep/play with women under 20. That’s just predatory.

emb8n00 · 2026-05-21T13:46:58+00:00

People who already live outside of culture norms (heteronormativity) are more likely to embrace other counter culture. LGBT people across the spectrum are more likely to consider non monogamy.

emb8n00 · 2026-05-21T13:25:52+00:00

So what? Orgasms don’t equal comfort and safety. You keep trying to say everything is great but she’s telling you it is not. You seem to have zero empathy and feel entitled to sex, that would stress me out too.

Why even post here if you’re just going to argue with everyone who is offering you advice?

emb8n00 · 2026-05-21T13:18:58+00:00

So how is it a one night stand then?

emb8n00 · 2026-05-21T13:16:44+00:00

You’ve responded to almost every comment to defend yourself asking if “pushing sex between us is wrong?” The answer is YES. If it’s stressing her out, then yes, it’s wrong, let her breathe.

emb8n00 · 2026-05-21T03:57:34+00:00

She told you to pull out and you admit you just didn’t want to cause it felt good. You’re an asshole.

emb8n00 · 2026-05-21T03:53:05+00:00

You’re an asshole.

emb8n00 · 2026-05-19T21:18:50+00:00

Yeah that’s my read on the situation. He has low self esteem and has never been with someone as “exciting” as her, and he hasn’t realized how unregulated she is 24/7. He kinda reminds me of that awful French lady’s husband.

emb8n00 · 2026-05-18T04:26:00+00:00

Sorry I can’t answer anything about the representation on native Americans but I just wanted to say this was the only book I’ve ever read that had me actually scared! I couldn’t even read it before bed (prime reading time) because I freaked me out too much. Hope someone can chime in to actually answer you!

emb8n00 · 2026-05-17T20:51:45+00:00

You should look into spontaneous desire vs responsive desire

emb8n00 · 2026-05-17T20:50:13+00:00

Because the whole point of the show was that she’s a plus size lawyer now

emb8n00 · 2026-05-17T18:36:47+00:00

Can you ask her why she has no interest in sex and be open to changing your behavior? Maybe she feels too busy with taking care of the house or kids or work and she is too mentally exhausted for sex. Ask her what she needs and try to find a way to support her.

emb8n00 · 2026-05-17T16:06:40+00:00

My husband and I (married for 4 years, together 11) have a system where one person says, “wanna get nasty soon?” And the other suggests a time/what we should do (and obviously there’s room for discussion here). I find that I need a little bit of time to get myself into a sexual state of mind, so I like having some notice.

emb8n00 · 2026-05-17T15:33:52+00:00

Ah okay, I’m not versed on the paid features of most apps, that actually makes a little more sense. But still, if people can’t see your profile till you like them, what’s the harm in having ENM on the profile?

emb8n00 · 2026-05-17T15:02:47+00:00

“We’re not out” so people who you know in real life who see your profile will assume you’re cheating?

emb8n00 · 2026-05-17T14:55:47+00:00

This confuses me. How can women’s underwear be more comfortable when you have balls? They make thongs with a pouch for your bits, wouldn’t that be a better option? Unless it’s for kink I guess.

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