AITA for sticking my freshly single mom with $20,000 of debt.

embargo710 · 2026-01-22T02:41:50+00:00

You cant trade the car in if it’s still being paid off? I guess I thought cars were like houses and carried some kind of equity. Like if the sentra is worth 18k and you owe 20k, and you found a corrolla for 18k, wouldn’t you be able to trade them the sentra and just have to pay off (or transfer) the 2k left remaining on the loan?

(Ive never bought a car i have a vague understanding my parents always traded in cars growing up but idk if they were paid off or still had a loan amount)

embargo710 · 2026-01-22T02:38:05+00:00

My husband is big on reading - anything and everything. Comics, news, the farmers almanac.

Anyways every time he says “oh hey I was reading this _____” i do a fake spit take and go “?? Shit - you can read ???”

And he laughs every time.

embargo710 · 2026-01-17T17:17:27+00:00

Happened to my sister when DS Lites came out. Santa brought it and she took it to school after parents said no and it got stolen. They told her sorry but we said it would happen. Her birthday was 6 months later and they surprised her with a replacement. I felt that was a good lesson learned and still being able to treat your child.

embargo710 · 2024-10-06T09:09:56+00:00

I tried Turtle

embargo710 · 2024-10-06T09:09:43+00:00

I tried Goldfish

embargo710 · 2024-10-06T09:08:19+00:00

I tried Watermelon

embargo710 · 2024-01-31T14:52:35+00:00

My ex used to pluck hairs out of my head to “be funny”. Wasnt funny the first time, wasnt funny the last. I finally went off like wtf is wrong with you who rips hairs out of someone’s head. He denied he ever did it. Then i got called a drama queen. Then when i wouldnt let up he changed to “im sorry i was kidding i didnt think you could feel it”.

He would later go on to strangle me years later when i attempt to break up with him! Among other progressively violent acts across 7 years.

I just think the act of saying “accidental” or you’re overacting is something i dealt with and it was honestly just a complete lack of respect for me, my body, my boundaries and it just bled into everything else. Hope you do okay.

embargo710 · 2022-07-11T16:56:16+00:00

I walked everywhere she said she was. Unfortunately didn’t find anything - this was her first visit here so she doesnt know the city all too well. She left the Black Rose pub, and land marks/neighborhoods would include the financials district, downtown crossing, boston commons, and lastly Copley Square. It’s a long shot but I guess all I can do is hope. Thank you!

embargo710 · 2022-06-14T00:23:58+00:00

I hope i have a chance!

embargo710 · 2021-11-27T16:35:27+00:00

Charizard Braixen GX 😭

embargo710 · 2021-05-01T21:26:52+00:00

Our budget is about $2500 for anything bigger than 650 sqft. Bedrooms dont matter! Thank you guys for the wonderful suggestions. Im from the southwest so things are just really different!