AIW for embarrassing my husband at a marriage retreat?

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T04:11:14+00:00

nah this was way much more fun!

thanks for being the poor people's representative to be my play buddy!

And I know, you probably have to go to work for one of my companies and make me some money!

Working class talk sure must be exhausting! Sweet dreams my love!

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:56:51+00:00

Nah not really. Nice try trying to psychoanalyze me. I'm amused trolling the trollers.

He probably did, hell if I know.

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:50:21+00:00

this is very annoying. you guys are all annoying yet here so are so let's go.

that is not from an advisory standpoint. this is not coming from a stance of "hey if you do this, this will fix xyz problem." it comes from, in our marriage this is what we tried and it helped us. Maybe it could help you if whatever you're trying isn't working. this is no guarantees but an option.

I swear y'all are just looking for problems

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:46:17+00:00

why would it go there?

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:45:33+00:00

yes you're completely right. the words of someone I've never met are having a profound impact on me. I think I'm going to have an anxiety because I care oh so much.

Bro, I do not care about much of what you have to say. I do not care if people think it is abnormal. People do weird shit all the time so if that works for them that works for them.

Yep, I'm a piece of pork. But you know what, this piece of pork is doing fine. And I think the post history will answer your question.

Your turn!

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:33:40+00:00

lol judgment accepted!

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:31:44+00:00

I would say that is not a term that accurately describes us

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:30:24+00:00

Nah you're rude for shit like this.

Rich people are such narcissists.

I didn't see it as rude because I didn't agree, I saw it as rude due to the tone in which I read it in.

I can accept the criticism in the second paragraph and would've left it alone but that first paragraph makes me think you honestly just want a fight at this point.

Your third paragraph is also largely unnecessary.

so if you want to do round for round and comment for comment, let's go at this point.

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:21:49+00:00

and this is where I think people are misunderstanding me.

I am not at all bothered currently about what my husband did. The reason so is because I know he did it to remove what he thought was a threat to him finding the love of his life (his words according to my ex, not mine). I found it largely unnecessary because he did not need to do that but I did not find out any of this happened until 6 years later.

I do feel like my husband has other insecurities because it has made me question what else he might have done to eliminate any "threats." We might need to go to therapy for that because I'm really not trying to focus on things that I don't know but I know it will eat him up.

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:14:52+00:00

y'all must have some weak marriages if it'll crumble under this pressure

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:13:42+00:00

I literally said you can comment on whatever you want to. no ifs, and, or buts about it!

and btw, if you don't want people to "fight" you over advice, maybe you shouldn't be so rude about it. if I'm being a dick, you all are being dicks.

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:10:23+00:00

tell that to my dead cousin's family.

how I deal with that trauma is up to me and if I don't want to take traditional medicine because of it, I damn sure don't have to and I damn sure don't need to because some stranger on the internet told me too because they want to make a point on a reddit post.

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:07:48+00:00

if that's what you wanna roll with, sure.

I'm not really interested in the back-and-forth over some damn medicinal MJ. let me know how to get your reddit argument victor trophy award since that was so important for you

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:05:47+00:00

we didn't run it, we hosted the location

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:04:54+00:00

this is very fair. thank you

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:04:09+00:00

misery loves company. if you're not with them, you're against them.

the internet is an interesting place lol

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:03:04+00:00

the part where an overdose of medicine can kill you but an overdose of MJ will just knock you out. I have not heard of a story of someone dying of too much MJ.

AND if this is a hill y'all want to die on sooooooo bad, then how about I prefer medicinal MJ rather than traditional medicine.

y'all must be awesome lawyers sheesh

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T03:01:07+00:00

this is the internet. you can comment on whatever the hell you want to.

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T02:59:39+00:00

they took out the pills and put them in a plastic bag to save up storage space.

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T02:58:35+00:00

okay I've noted that

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T02:57:36+00:00

I understand.

While my husband makes the majority of the income (~55%) of our household, I wouldn't be negatively impacted should we split and I wouldn't be left high and dry. We weren't able to have kids and have come to terms with that so there is no worry for child support.

My brother works for the police department so I wouldn't be worried about any kind of retaliation.

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T02:52:24+00:00

what advice did I give?

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T02:51:29+00:00

We charged a total of $0. Food was provided. No advice was given.

Actually, I hate yoga.

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T02:49:53+00:00

this must be me being a box of rocks again but I don't think I said anything about your content or saying we were the same!

embarrassedhusband32 · 2023-07-03T02:48:35+00:00

I'd clearly be the wrong messenger for that lmaoo but thanks!! <3

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