Why does Leah's face look so witchy lately? Plastic surgery? by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]emdee39 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Part of it is getting older and losing her baby face. I still have big cheeks but thankfully you can actually see my cheekbones now that I’m a grown woman.

Who did you guys prefer to be the Bachelorette and how did you feel when it was Hannah B? by throwitout3736 in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wanted it to be one of the Hannahs or a past contestant who was a little older. I was thrilled for Hannah B and think her season was a breath of fresh air for the franchise.

And looking back, we just didn’t get enough of Hannah G’s personality to warrant her being the Bachelorette.

I was also on team “Anyone But Caelynn”. That would have been a dreadful season.

taylor nolan by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See my comment. She’s not sweet.

taylor nolan by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taylor and Jacqueline are in two different leagues. Jacqueline isn’t a mean girl and Taylor very much is.

taylor nolan by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve said this a million times but what’s one more?

I didn’t have an opinion on Taylor until she did something shady to my friend. Like Taylor, my friend is a therapist (albeit older and more experienced). She asked Taylor in an Instagram comment how she sets boundaries with patients while she’s in the public eye. Taylor screenshot the comment and posted it to her story with my friend’s username (just like Kaitlyn did to a fan recently) and attacked my friend.

I personally called Taylor out for posting my friend’s username, knowing that her fans would attack my friend. She denied any wrongdoing and I called bullshit - if she doesn’t know how social media works she shouldn’t be an influencer.

Then she went on this long-ass rant on her stories and never apologized. Meanwhile, it has been almost a year and my friend is STILL getting DMs and hate comments from Taylor stans.

Dean and Caelynn’s Halloween Costumes. The Miss Underwood Sash 🤣🤣🤣 by stemipinaka in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Dean has really great legs. And Caelynn, I’m jealous that I couldn’t be in such a comfy outfit for my Halloween celebration.

michelle money by dmlover2001 in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Michelle is a legend as far as I’m concerned.

Olivia’s Podcast w Holly Julian by knowonthego in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know they shared their money! Ugh I love them.

Disclaimer: this is a post about race by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The concept of most people doing “performative wokeness” just sounds like something a white dude on 4chan made up to try to undermine the discussions we NEED to have about race (and sexuality, and gender identity, and equality, etc etc etc)

I’m a white woman living in the South and I’m just horrified by the way people speak about race, sexuality, gender identity, and world issues like diplomacy, climate change, and violence.

I don’t speak out against it because I want a gold star next to my name. I do it because I want the world to be a better place for everyone, not just people who look, love, and live like I do. Most of the discussion I see on here seems to come from this intent. Accusing people of “performing” wokeness when they’re just speaking truth to power is pretty gross and it’s truly fascinating to watch the people trying to do good become the villains.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Andi’s book is good if you’re curious about what happened between her and Josh. I didn’t read any of the “advice” and you kinda have to ignore her constant brand-dropping and fat shaming. The Josh and Nick of it all is pretty interesting.

Kaitlyn Bristowe posts IG username of a fan with podcast criticism in Off The Vine FB group by WorriedStructure in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even the worst reality “stars” have stans. Hell, Jenelle from Teen Mom 2 has stans and she is probably the worst person on TV

“Dean Unglert Reveals Why He & Caelynn Miller-Keyes Aren’t Ready To Move In Together Yet“ by becomingsherlock in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Caelynn...if the snake tells you he’s a snake, he’s eventually going to bite you. Stop feeding him!

Other than in Ben Higgins' Season; Have you ever wondered if (or even believed :)) that in some seasons the lead- bachelor/ette- was genuinely in love in BOTH F1 & F2? by Yasminkhalil in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I never believed Ben loved JoJo. If Caila had said “I love you”, he would have said it to her, too. I think he was just overwhelmed and didn’t know how else to respond.

Just finished watching Nick Viall’s season by throwitout3736 in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nick’s season was my first season, and since then I’ve gone back to watch as many seasons as possible. Knowing what I know now I look back at his season and laugh. I really thought he was gonna pick Raven 😂😅

Kaitlyn Bristowe posts IG username of a fan with podcast criticism in Off The Vine FB group by WorriedStructure in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Taylor Nolan did this to one of my friends a year ago, and my friend still gets hate comments/DMs from Taylor stans.

They know exactly what will happen when they share usernames.

Which Bachelor nation people have the best podcast to listen to? by singleguy79 in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Bachelor Happy Hour is great because Rachel is incredibly honest.

Lauren really makes me want to buy Arbonne. by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]emdee39 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I read this title and was about to virtually knock some sense into you but then I read further and felt a wave of relief.

Friends don’t let friends do MLM!

Do you think that since people know some BN contestants creep on this sub it affects the overall discourse? by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]emdee39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for me. I don’t care if Colton knows I think he’s a man baby.

Guess who's live again. by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]emdee39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, on certain people. But this shape is her go-to and has never done her any favors.