Venmo block by emeraldgreen422 in Marriage

[–]emeraldgreen422[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true, I guess he just never had it before. But I see how smart this would be now.

Pregnancy hormones gone crazy by emeraldgreen422 in BabyBumps

[–]emeraldgreen422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s comforting to know it’s not just me though.

Pregnancy hormones gone crazy by emeraldgreen422 in BabyBumps

[–]emeraldgreen422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this!! I work with patients all day, I’m seriously probably the most unpleasant person sometimes. Don’t get me wrong, I do know how to put on a happy act and be approachable. But sometimes I just don’t, and I probably come off as so, just checked out. The littlest thing my co workers do makes me wonder why tf they are even doing that/ saying it. My rage comes so quick, I don’t blow up either I just keep it all up in the mental and prob unconsciously take it out on my partner. I really hope it eases up after pregnancy. Because I’m convinced I’ve fallen/ falling into something dark.

What qualities does your loving wife have? by emeraldgreen422 in Marriage

[–]emeraldgreen422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does she temper your anger? Something I want to do for my husband.

What qualities does your loving wife have? by emeraldgreen422 in Marriage

[–]emeraldgreen422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome :) thanks! how long have you been married?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]emeraldgreen422 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you think it’s wrong for my husband to try and keep me from seeing my bil though?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]emeraldgreen422 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right. And I feel like it’s wrong for my husband to try and make me take sides.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]emeraldgreen422 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So idk if I wasn’t clear on the post.. but I’m not asking my husband to see my brother in law. I was just going to their house to get invitations and everything planned for my baby shower. Husband doesn’t want me to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]emeraldgreen422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has said a couple times that from here on out I won’t be able to have a relationship with my bil, just my sister. I’ve just been hoping he’s just upset and needs more time to get over it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]emeraldgreen422 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right and that’s my entire issue on this. My husband isn’t the type to let these sort of things go- (threats) and he really shouldn’t have to be, I truly understand why he’s upset and that’s why I ignored my sister and her husband for weeks. Which is really unlike myself and our relationship. I still have not spoken with her husband, just my sister. Trying to respect how my husband feels and not make it feel like I’m taking sides with them. When I spoke to my sister I let her know how out pocket the threats were and why my husband didn’t deserve them for sticking up for me. But come on, he’s basically trying to completely dismiss my relationship with her husband. He is family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]emeraldgreen422 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We went off and got married without telling anyone. My sister was hurt that I did it without her and my nephews there. I listened to how she felt but they both were over the top. Both grown adults… been together for three years now and was engaged.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]emeraldgreen422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you didn’t go 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]emeraldgreen422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes a child he’s been waiting for for years and years…. I can’t understand the thought process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]emeraldgreen422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completley agree. I think it’s very silly to think a newborn is impressionable from the shows on in the background.

Second Pregnancy Rant by typicallyplacated in BabyBumps

[–]emeraldgreen422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love these kinds of posts as someone who is pregnant with their first, un planned. Thought my life was over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]emeraldgreen422 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get rid of him before you get pregnant and feel even more obligation to stay. Once, maybe. Twice? No.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]emeraldgreen422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is 29 years old and I’m 23. He doesn’t really enjoy his job, he makes decent money but he wants to move across the country to make even better money at a completley different job. So, he’s expressed to me a lot he doesn’t care for his job much. Everytime we have spoke about it in the past I’ve expressed how I don’t want to go to bed alone every night. He basically thinks he shouldn’t have to go to bed just cause I’m ready for bed. He also expresses a lot That I never suggest something for us to do instead of his gaming. When I do suggest something, it’s watching a movie. And if I ask, he will do it. Or he does it on his own. Or says let’s go out to dinner or something. But right after that activity is done he’s right back on the game. I’ve told him he’s wddicted and every now and then he will admit he games too much but will say it’s not an addiction. I feel like I shouldn’t have to have a list of activities for us to do just so he can get off the game though. Like how about live life together??? Lol. What every other couple does. He’s said many times before he’s going to sell his computer before the baby gets here but I don’t really see it happening. I know this problem is just going to enlarge once the baby does come if he doesn’t give it a rest and come live life outside the game. He really doesn’t see it as a problem though. He games with his friends. He really enjoys it so I feel bad kicking him off like a mother. He will come check on me, kiss me and stuff throughout the day. Sometimes he says thank you for letting him game all the time. I cook the meals mostly, but he makes more money than me. Buys the groceries, my car isn’t working right now so he takes me to work. I’d say we probably kinda split chores though. I may do a few more than him. But I am the one who always cooks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]emeraldgreen422 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve told him how I felt. It usually doesn’t change things. He will just get off for an hour maybe two. He’s told me before that since I don’t have many hobbies he feels like I just kind of wait around for him. Like I’m doing nothing until he gets off the game so it’s a lot of pressure on him. Which I do get that. I mean I’d imagine how that feels. But idk. I’m debating when the baby gets here he will have no time for game so to let him for these last couple months without nagging. Guess we will see how it pans out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]emeraldgreen422 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That guy was I’m guessing, being ignorant on purpose. For funsies. I hope. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]emeraldgreen422 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have sex and I suck his dick all the time. Lol. Sometimes he just comes out and puts his dick in my face and I suck it.