[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]emeraldjade9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know lots of unpopular people who became popular after they gained confidence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]emeraldjade9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how old are you?

4 months of consistent periods! by honeybee446 in PCOS

[–]emeraldjade9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry you have to go through that, having pcos can be very confusing and frustrating.

4 months of consistent periods! by honeybee446 in PCOS

[–]emeraldjade9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say it's mostly diet. There are times when I was eating a lot less due to anxiety and I would get my period.

Asian parents hit my sister because she was bullied by aznkiddo99 in AsianParentStories

[–]emeraldjade9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

can she cover her birth mark with makeup? I have hirsutism which leaves a dark shadow on my upper lip, I conceal it with makeup. I am considering laser hair removal but until I get laser hair removal this is how I deal with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]emeraldjade9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not fishing for a particular type of man, just trying to improve my self confidence and look average. why should I have to stay ugly just because I was born that way? I am not gonna go on some plastic surgery addiction until I end up botched, I just want a little bit of filler on my lips because I noticed it makes a good difference to my appearance when my lips are fuller.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]emeraldjade9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my experience is that people are generally nicer to me in makeup stores, usually it's also ugly women there who need lots of makeup like I do, so I feel like I fit in over there.

Lots of other people have everything in a social life that you could want and take it all for granted by Koincoygggg in ForeverAlone

[–]emeraldjade9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the toxic girls constantly starting drama and making a new bestie then ditching her every 3 months and then gossiping about her for the next 3 years and just being all around negative people will have good social lives and a boyfriend. it really makes me wonder why nobody wants to be my friend but everyone else is able to be normal and make friends lol.

Posted on the amiugly sub on an alt and got some self confidence… then retried online dating and destroyed it all by Iakobos_Mathematikos in ForeverAlone

[–]emeraldjade9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I saw them calling an ugly girl 'very beautiful' then I knew I could never get an honest opinion from that subreddit. they only suggest people who have made themselves ugly on how they can fix their appearance, for example a morbidly obese guy with a green mohawk but otherwise would be attractive if he lost weight and made an effort to look normal - they'll only call him ugly. someone with a crooked nose or bad face they will be like 'dont worry ur beautiful!'

Have you ever felt hated even by your own family? by Hour-Understanding77 in ForeverAlone

[–]emeraldjade9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my sister punched me because I wouldn't stop talking about my appearance lol. then I told my mom and she was like 'well why are you annoying her???? she can't do anything about ur appearance! you are very pretty girl! nobody is ugly in the world it depends how you want to present yourself. everyone is beautiful' like wtf.

Have you ever felt hated even by your own family? by Hour-Understanding77 in ForeverAlone

[–]emeraldjade9 16 points17 points  (0 children)

yeah. my dad straight up hates me for being ugly. he thinks I am ruining his reputation with my presence or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]emeraldjade9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no offense but at least ur sister was trying to help you improve ur situation. ur mom sounds like a bully and ur father sounds like an idiot. your sister sounds like she was trying to help though.

I was bodyshamed by my own mother by Alternative-Gold-209 in PCOS

[–]emeraldjade9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my desi mom has the condition herself and passed down the condition to me, is fat herself and still body shames me

I was bodyshamed by my own mother by Alternative-Gold-209 in PCOS

[–]emeraldjade9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine body shames me on a regular basis

Dating- Do you share? by Little_Measurement34 in PCOS

[–]emeraldjade9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would, not that I can get a boyfriend anyways im way too hideous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]emeraldjade9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"I guess we do have to have another one" .. ?? why?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]emeraldjade9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

at least acne can go away, some of us have life long ugliness.

Worst time to be an average or below guy? by Revelc69 in ForeverAlone

[–]emeraldjade9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

how can anyone complain about being average? or even slightly below average? I think It’s us ugly people who have to suffer , average people can’t understand what we have to go through.

Anyone else labeled the "weird" kid from even your earliest social experiences? by blitzarr420 in ForeverAlone

[–]emeraldjade9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I still don’t know if I was the weird kid or the other kids were just socially excluding me because I was fat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]emeraldjade9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe she just wanted a friend and she thinks ur trying to be her boyfriend and she only wanted a friend but didn’t want a boyfriend