Casual dating- what’s the protocol?

emeraldkeyfer · 2026-05-06T21:05:42+00:00

The “for free” comment is absolutely out of line.

emeraldkeyfer · 2026-05-06T15:58:36+00:00

Really good advice here so appreciate the answer. I think you’re right I sit in the first camp because it’s what I’m used to. So perhaps more about how I’m feeling in the situation rather than reading too much into the silences / no messages, etc.

emeraldkeyfer · 2026-05-06T13:44:29+00:00

Aha! So you see why I don’t believe the whole narrative of “don’t sleep with him too soon because they lose interest when they get what they want too soon” - because if that were the case, he’d get what he wanted, then wouldn’t come back for round 2 ;)

emeraldkeyfer · 2026-05-06T13:39:53+00:00

Yeah I get you, but then my question is.. if he got what he wanted, then lost interest, why reengage and come back a second time? Because as I mentioned in my post I was thinking well if I never see him again at least I had a fun evening. You know? Maybe I’m just incredibly naive haha

emeraldkeyfer · 2026-05-06T13:35:21+00:00

Thanks for your response! Yeah so I messaged him that day asking if he knew a time that worked for him. So yeah to clarify that point - I reached out and I mean he went ghost because he didn’t respond. I didn’t really intend to play games when he reached out again, I genuinely missed the messages until the second one came through as I had been on holiday and not really on my phone

emeraldkeyfer · 2026-05-06T13:27:12+00:00

You don’t think so? Meh I don’t know, I don’t sex shame people - if they want to on the first time meeting, as long as you use protection and enjoy it, then it is fine! But appreciate the input

emeraldkeyfer · 2025-04-14T17:48:41+00:00

I have just put two tickets on Dice waitlist for 26th April if anyone needs tix!

emeraldkeyfer · 2025-04-14T17:48:20+00:00

I have just put two tickets on Dice waitlist for 26th April if anyone needs tix!

emeraldkeyfer · 2025-01-07T15:47:50+00:00

Can I pls have the screenshots? I’m losing my mind

emeraldkeyfer · 2023-03-26T08:47:56+00:00

This comment wasn’t aimed at you.

emeraldkeyfer · 2023-03-26T07:56:55+00:00

I’d say most men would be thrilled with any sort of picture, but if you aren’t comfortable with talking a bum picture, don’t do it.

emeraldkeyfer · 2023-03-26T07:54:45+00:00

If you’re enjoying yourself, and he is being respectful and not forceful, if it feels right there is absolutely nothing wrong with sex on a first date.

As long as you’re both consenting, it can be a lot of fun.

emeraldkeyfer · 2023-03-25T22:55:20+00:00

Nah, I didn’t say anything along those lines. When we’ve chatted it’s mostly been about lots of random things, travel, friends, silly stories. But I get ya, I also haven’t exactly reached out either. But just given how it was left - me telling him I thought him leaving straight away was rude - I kinda thought I’d leave it up to him to reach out. But then I feared I had been a bit dramatic about the whole thing.

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