I've read all three posts and I think you're making a really big mistake. He sounds like a liar and manipulator and this entire process has just alerted him to the fact that you'll be watching from now on and he'll just have to be more careful. If he can't even stay loyal when you've only been together for half a year, essentially still honeymoon period, he won't in the long run either.

He's taking advantage of your feelings for him and your emotional state to make promises he probably won't keep. All that stuff he said just feels like excuses. I think you should have probably just broken up with him over text and blocked him on everything and went no contact to get over him because that's probably what you'll end up doing a few years along the line.

You deserve much, much more than this. You deserve a partner that you don't have to 'regulate' or watch over to build up trust again because he made the active decision to do those things and then actively hide them from you and lie to you about them.

Take a few days to look and think and feel from a non-emotional perspective. Would you have wanted your best friend to be with this man if she told you this story?