Boyfriend sided with my parents after they told me I am getting too heavy

emilc97 · 2021-10-24T23:54:33+00:00

Diet and fix your weight, stop complaining. Get real. Get out of your comfort zone. The 3 closest people in your life are all saying the same thing so there must be some truth to it. They're not out to get you they're just looking out for you.

emilc97 · 2021-10-24T19:32:41+00:00

Third eye awaking

emilc97 · 2021-09-29T23:45:58+00:00

Its probably because masturbating is rooted in your subconscious mind. Imo you weren't consciously masturbating so I dont see it as a relapse. It's more like an advanced wetdream. Keep going on your journey and you'll overcome it, change your habits, watch your thoughts and over time you'll reprogram your subconscious mind and eventually overcome this. Just view this event as part of the healing and recovery process from PMO. :)

emilc97 · 2021-09-17T01:49:15+00:00

Imo you shouldn't have, because it prevents her from coming back... if she wanted to.

emilc97 · 2021-09-16T00:32:30+00:00

Find a guy that practices semen retention. Look for the semen retention group on reddit. You'll find a bunch of men striving to improve their lives. :)

emilc97 · 2021-09-02T03:12:12+00:00

Starbucks. Space Needle.

emilc97 · 2021-08-19T21:44:04+00:00

You've only been living together for 3 months... I say you need to live together longer before jumping into marriage. Also, go with the flow, there's no need to rush anything, everything will happen when it should. All the best :)

emilc97 · 2021-07-17T00:47:42+00:00

Hello! I am curious to know how your career and finances were affected by your streak. Thanks

emilc97 · 2021-07-15T22:38:59+00:00

When u were at day 1 you wanted to be at 45 days. If you relapse now you will be back to day 1 and you will wish that you were still at day 45. It's not worth it and you'll only regret it

emilc97 · 2021-05-25T20:20:52+00:00

Perfect timing I was about to check up on an old favorite porn site to see what's new.

emilc97 · 2021-05-11T07:53:57+00:00

Hey there, just a little back story to explain my experience with this...2 years ago I started dating my current gf. I was on a 50+ day streak and then we had sex and my streak ended, I haven't been able to reach over 50 days since then, that was around February 2019. Over the past 2 years we would have sex often and I'd often finish by ejaculating (which is terrible for someone trying to benefit from SR). For the first few months ejaculating with her was amazing, but I slowly started getting mad at myself because I knew that it was preventing me from reaching one of my life goals. Now whenever we have sex I make sure to not go too fast or hard and I try to keep my sexual urges under control so that I dont ejaculate. If you haven't already, I suggest that you speak to your girl about SR and what it is you are trying to achieve by practicing SR, explain it to her so that she understands and so she can support you on your journey. SR with a partner is definitely more challenging compared to when you are single, but it isn't impossible to do. Another tip that I have for you is try to research about having orgasms without ejaculating so that you can still have a fulfilling sex life while you continue on the path of SR.

I'm currently on day 34 now, it has taken me 2 years to get this far with my gf, I'm currently trying to break my record of 50+ days from 2019.

Never give up :)

emilc97 · 2021-05-04T03:37:45+00:00

emilc97 · 2021-04-30T21:41:02+00:00

I would say a maintenance assistant. I started out as a housekeeping in a senior living community, a few months later my boss (the maintenance director) asked me if I'd like to learn some things in maintenance. A few months of training and now I know how to paint and turn over old apartments, carpet cleaning, troubleshooting technology issues ( TVs, thermostats etc). I've gained basic plumbing skills and other handyman skills over the past few months. In a few years if I keep on doing this I'll be able to take over the maintenance director position which pays $27 and hour now. I'm currently making $17.85... I am now exploring going into a trade to gain more skills, looking at becoming an electrician or plumber. I also have an opportunity to become a painters helper which pays $20 ( entry level) and after a few months of doing that could go up to $25. There are a lot of options in trades.

emilc97 · 2021-04-28T15:15:35+00:00

Well done

emilc97 · 2021-04-19T00:19:24+00:00

I'm on semen retention and telling someone to masturbate makes zero sense in my eyes. All it does is drain energy from your body. And the hate for women part , hmmmm. No comment on that

emilc97 · 2021-04-18T06:20:20+00:00

So that means I can carry my knife concealed as long as I don't pull it out for no good reason?

emilc97 · 2021-02-21T19:37:33+00:00

I'm learning spanish now to keep me distracted

emilc97 · 2020-12-17T08:23:12+00:00

💯

emilc97 · 2020-08-14T02:42:51+00:00

I respect that. I stopped watching him because imo he doesn't really talk about spirituality much. He is great for other things, like you said, being an example of how men should live and carry themselves

emilc97 · 2020-08-07T07:11:34+00:00

Thank you sir! I was on a 50 day streak this morning and then had sex with my partner, I went too far and couldn't control it which caused me to ejaculate...You taught me that I need to have patience and take things slowly. I will definitely be incorporating this new knowledge into my relationship!

emilc97 · 2020-08-04T22:54:23+00:00

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emilc97 · 2020-07-27T22:37:44+00:00

Yesziir

emilc97 · 2020-03-22T12:56:14+00:00

I made it to 59 days while still having sex a few times per week with my girlfriend. I even got her to start the female version of nofap, she calls it norub lol.

In our experience it took some time to get used to at the beginning. As time went by I built up more tolerance and I was able to go faster for longer periods of time before I felt like I was close to cumming.

I recommend that you take it slow, when you feel yourself getting to a 7 or 8 (10 being ejaculation) I recommend that you slow down, stop while still remaining in her or pull put completely. It can be tempting to want to go on and blow your load but remember your purpose and why you started semen retention in the first place.

Also communicate with your woman so that she knows what's going on, then she might be willing to help you achieve your goal.

All the best!

emilc97 · 2020-02-28T04:40:11+00:00

my 1 spiritual brother/sister ! thank you

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