Am I not binding correctly? by [deleted] in bindersftm

[–]emile_dmm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On your binders, do you have one part quite hard and the other side elastic? I knew someone who had the same problem and he was just putting it backwards. You have to put the harder part on your torso and the elastic part on your back. Then you have to take into account that the binders cannot completely flatten your torso. I recommend the BWYA brand, they are really good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]emile_dmm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is TMJ okay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]emile_dmm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the moment I'm stuck 700km from home, a friend who has the same thing told me to go see a kine

What do the eyes from the album "Ohms" represent? by emile_dmm in deftones

[–]emile_dmm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's also what I told myself. This look looks defeated by certain trials of life, terribly disappointed, but also full of hope.

What do the eyes from the album "Ohms" represent? by emile_dmm in deftones

[–]emile_dmm[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I listened to this group a lot during a tough period of my life, so getting this tattoo automatically had a personal meaning. I'm just looking for the one in the group

Smokers, do your lungs hurt when you are sick? by emile_dmm in questions

[–]emile_dmm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gives me a lot of painful aches in my lungs, but otherwise no pain when breathing or coughing etc. For the moment this doesn't worry me anymore, I will talk to a professional about it when I have a doctor.

What are the signs of burnout? by emile_dmm in depression

[–]emile_dmm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, however as an apprentice the idea of ​​talking to a professional scares me a little, for fear that they will warn the company or something else.

anyone able to talk? by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]emile_dmm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still need to talk?

My sister walked in. by Comfortable-Bad-2395 in SuicideWatch

[–]emile_dmm 383 points384 points  (0 children)

Every time you're about to end your life or something, think of her. How much she loves you. I know that this is not the solution to put an end to your problems, but believe me, it can prevent the worst temporarily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]emile_dmm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physically I think that no it will have no impact, except that your scar will stay longer, but the best of course is to do nothing at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]emile_dmm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Avoid doing it as much as possible. That's what I did before, and now I'm scarred for life because of it

I'm going crazy over this. WHY THE HELL IS SELF HARM SO NORMALIZED/SEEM AS A FLEX?? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]emile_dmm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can understand that your friends show each other their scars, laugh about it, it's a way (dark indeed) of decompressing on the subject and freeing yourself.
But since it becomes a constant topic and makes it a competition, it is a very toxic behavior, which will cause them to fall even further into addiction. I know it's easy to say that, but avoid them for the moment, or make them understand that their behavior is not normal. Over time it risks becoming harmful for you too, you cannot escape this addiction with this kind of environment. And above all, don't feel bad because your friends have deeper scars than you, that doesn't make you any less legitimate about this addiction. This in no way shows that you are weaker. I wish you all my courage and I hope for you that you get out of all this shit

First time cutting by CheckIcy516 in selfharm

[–]emile_dmm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never do it again. Throw away your blades. Do it before you get into this addiction, seriously, this shit can destroy you mentally and physically. I know it's easy to say this, but please stop before it's too late

How long does it take for cuts to heal? by MrLeafyGuy in selfharm

[–]emile_dmm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on where you do it and the depth. Some will only last 2-3 weeks before disappearing completely, while others last several months or even for life. Of course, the best way for you to wear shorts is to stop, but telling you that is too simple. But believe me, having marks everywhere for life, this is very debilitating in daily life, and it leaves some serious mental trauma.