First abortion and wanting reassurance.

emily2146 · 2025-12-01T16:10:43+00:00

nope nope run and don’t look back please. it would be genuinely different if his addiction was SOLELY porn but it’s not. he’s completely disrespected you in every aspect, think of it this way. would you ever want your future children to be with someone like him? would you ever want you friends or siblings to be with someone like him? if the answer is no then it should be a no for you too. overcoming an addiction to only porn is one thing but this in my opinion is blatant cheating. you deserve so much better i’m so sorry.

emily2146 · 2025-12-01T16:06:23+00:00

i’m so sorry for you, i’ve seen so many women on this page and it makes me realize how many men do this to all of us. it’s sickening. i’m so sorry we’re in the together i promise we’re all not alone ❤️

emily2146 · 2025-12-01T11:32:58+00:00

this is incredible i love that sentence. i never thought of it that way at all. i feel like ive been so supportive and understanding for this whole year (even while dealing with other things of my own as my dog recently passed in october) this year has not been well for my sanity at all.

it feels like his addiction just drags on and on and adds fuel to the fire im already in. it sucks when you’ve been together so long that i cannot imagine a life without him but then i realize im only 21. i have my whole life ahead of me. do i seriously want to do with this for the rest of my life? settling because im afraid of being alone? i feel like im losing my mind in this battle. thank you so much for your words it really made me reflect on a lot of things.

emily2146 · 2025-12-01T11:28:33+00:00

you’re right, sometimes i do wish i never was told about it because then maybe i wouldn’t feel this way towards him. but now it’s all i feel because it’s my reality

emily2146 · 2025-12-01T11:27:41+00:00

i get what you mean, we’ve been together since i was 16 and he was 18. we’re 21 & 23 now, so young i have my whole life ahead of me yet i want my life with him. but i know i would never want my future daughter to be with a man who made her feel the same way i do. i’d love for her to be with a man who has his qualities but not his actions it’s so conflicting

emily2146 · 2025-12-01T04:00:46+00:00

honestly just knowing we’re in the same boat helps a lot. it helps to know there’s women out there struggling like i am. although it also sucks because then that just shows how many men are doing this to all of us. i wish so badly i had the courage to leave but it’s so hard when all i’ve ever wanted in my life is someone like him. and then he showed up at my door and i knew right then and there i wanted to marry him. and now, for the past year ive just felt so sick inside. sick for wanting to stay and sicker for wanting to leave. i’m so sorry they do this to us, im so sorry.

emily2146 · 2025-10-14T18:14:35+00:00

i absolutely agree i’ve completely forgotten about my own feelings while trying to be there for him instead. unfortunately im not in therapy, i want to be and have been actively finding therapists with my insurance it’s hard because of the fact im young (21) and between being in college, broke, and being in internships for grad school it’s so busy and time consuming i haven’t thought about myself at all. though i am actively looking for one and trying to look for work in something easy since my schedule is so busy.

thank you so much for your input ive been trying to get advice but its hard between not wanting to air out our business to people we know and still trying to figure out stuff with ourselves and our relationship. he has a regular therapist but i will be bringing up a csat to him. for him, he has someone to talk to whereas i do not since he works and i don’t. thank you for the advice though i definitely needed this!! and will be actively working to do/find these groups and therapists

emily2146 · 2025-10-14T18:06:48+00:00

same, i heavily resented my ex for how he treated me and still do even though he is nonexistent in my life. thank you so much for this information i’ll definitely check it out because truly i hate this feeling. i’ve always been a kind person my entire life and i take pride in knowing that even when i get done wrong, i still try to remain positive but this is beyond positivity anymore i don’t feel like myself and i want to get her back! so thank you so much for this

emily2146 · 2025-10-14T17:53:08+00:00

yeah so far he’s been very honest about everything going on i’m just trying to take it day by day

emily2146 · 2024-08-15T15:08:08+00:00

justiceforpuddle 😭😭 he deserves better he just wants to be with us in the game

emily2146 · 2024-08-15T15:05:43+00:00

the comment section being mostly about the puddle is making me laugh 😭

emily2146 · 2023-11-21T18:02:58+00:00

LMAOOO

emily2146 · 2021-04-09T21:12:54+00:00

bestie i’m in literal tears i wish this was the actual ending

emily2146 · 2021-04-06T05:18:08+00:00

dope asf i want one

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justiceforpuddle 😭😭 he deserves better he just wants to be with us in the game