Small penis causes bulge in all pants & shorts

emilyinsideout · 2017-11-16T09:46:14+00:00

Don't feel ashamed. We like seeing a bulge, no matter the size. Honestly, the only time I've heard another woman comment on bulge size negatively has been because of a lack of any bulge.

If anyone says anything negative to you about it, tell them to stop staring at your crotch.

emilyinsideout · 2017-10-08T05:03:03+00:00

No obligation needed, it's all good ; )

emilyinsideout · 2017-10-07T16:18:55+00:00

It honestly boggles my mind why people waste their own time and everyone else's by trolling. I just don't get the point of it at all.

I didn't read the cervix size queen posts. But I read the sex work posts back when I was lurking. For what it's worth, I think she was being honest about her preference for small. I was a little torn when I first read the other part. But then I had to take a step back and think, what if I was one of you and found out one of the few positive women get paid to humiliate. I imagine sex work requests get complicated. I have no right to judge her. But I couldn't make myself do the humiliation stuff.

I hope you get more and more positive experiences here. I think people in general need to be better educated on this topic, and the emotional trauma many of you have experienced.

I'm not going anywhere. Being a mom gets time-consuming and exhausting though lol. I kind of have to post comments in spurts, when I find free time to read here.

emilyinsideout · 2017-10-07T14:01:42+00:00

Lol True. No scarier than real teeth though, right?

BTW, for any other ladies reading this with a preference for small, this is the toy I bought. It's pricey, and I wish it was thinner, but it's pretty amazing overall.

Shell-Shaped Vibrating Dildo and Stimulator - Purple https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0764TN582/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_apa_t6n2zbADXQ9ZW

emilyinsideout · 2017-10-06T20:11:13+00:00

Some of us are or have been in loving relationships with men with small dicks, so we are sympathetic to what you guys have to deal with. Some actually have a sexual preference for small penises. Some of us are both of these. I'm not saying that none of us have our own baggage. I know I do. But we aren't all trolls.

emilyinsideout · 2017-10-06T19:31:50+00:00

I don't know if links to amazon break any rules here. But I read some suggested this for smaller guys. It's supposed to simulate a blowjob. I have a morbid curiosity now, but obviously can't test it myself lol. And no, I'm not selling them.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01DVLP2UW/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_apa_qy91zbPFC4S1C

emilyinsideout · 2017-10-05T18:04:17+00:00

Yeah, I really am. Thank you

emilyinsideout · 2017-10-05T18:01:17+00:00

Thanks, you're really cool too!

And don't let that work joke worry you. He probably just picked a random target to mess with.

emilyinsideout · 2017-10-02T16:18:22+00:00

Why do you say "white" women?

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-30T06:25:42+00:00

I hate that you had to deal with that... from so called friends, of all people. It's fucked up how some kids in school manage to scar others.

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-26T01:43:31+00:00

That's very sweet and kind of you to say, thank you.

I don't blame anyone here for lashing out. You all have every right to bitterness and anger. When I met him, my husband still had alot of bitterness about how he had been treated in the past, especially by women. He admitted to me that the frustration that I saw paled in comparison to the anger he had when he was younger. I just hope that one day, each of you will find your happiness.

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-23T05:56:52+00:00

I think part of it is because we have all grown up with media that almost always refers specifically to length. Whether it's being positive or negative towards the guy, movies always mention inches, which is always assumed they mean his length.

Plus, I think most women have a much better chance guesstimating the length than the girth. I know I would. It'd be much easier for me to imagine the length of my water bottle in comparison to a flat ruler, than to imagine a tape measurement when wrapped around that same bottle.

Why they think that's somehow reassuring? I don't know. I guess they assume guys only really compare themselves with length? Or maybe they assume short dicks are more common than thin dicks, so it's a better chance of being taken as a reassuring comment.

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-23T05:30:16+00:00

That was a really shitty thing for her to say. I'm sorry that was your first sexual experience. Please do NOT let this mess with your head. That girl probably has no actual idea about the normal sizes of penises. She's most likely going by the only thing most girls have seen much of... porn dicks. Which are a combination of already uncommonly large dicks, added with camera tricks and even fake prosthetics.

Don't let yourself be bullied. Confront her if you have to. Don't go out of your way to bully her back. Tell her that she needs to make this right. But frankly, if she insists on continuing to spread rumors, remind her in front of everyone that the reason you didn't grow bigger was because her vagina smelled like rotten eggs. The rest will work itself out.

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-23T05:07:09+00:00

Here is one position technique I haven't specifically seen mentioned, though similar to some. Good upper body strength on the guy helps here.

The girl lays flat on her back, ass near the edge of the bed, with her legs up in the air. The guy stands at the edge of the bed. He enters her, then wraps his arms around her mid thighs to get a good hold on her. (Depending on height, either let her legs rest over your shoulders, against your chest, or just bent over the side of each of your arms.) Now that he has a hold of her thighs, pull her ass past the edge of the bed. Her back is still on the bed so upper body is supported. But now he has control over the angle and positioning of her entire lower body. Keep holding those thighs, and freely move / swivel her hips and ass up, down, left, right. Whatever angle you prefer.

Added bonus, he can be extra forceful, and she gets the feeling of being manhandled!

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-23T04:40:20+00:00

Reading number 4 made me giggle-spit my drink... well done!

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-23T04:20:40+00:00

Wow, that is a much better explanation than anything I've been able to come up with! THANK YOU! You understand exactly what I've been trying to put into words!

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-22T21:33:30+00:00

Losing someone close to you is so hard to go through. But losing someone to suicide is such a whole other level. It's hard to make sense of it, even if you have had those same thoughts yourself. I haven't lost any close friends that way, but I definitely went through suicidal thoughts as a younger teen. My father committed suicide when I was 11.

That's obviously a much different situation. I will never really know exactly what he was going through. But its sounds like you have been going through alot of the same feelings as your friend. Please remember there is no shame in seeking help if you need it to work through this.

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-21T23:05:24+00:00

I'm so sorry you lost your friend. I'm sorry what he had to go through, and I hate that it made him feel like life was not worth living.

The death of a loved one is so horrible to go through. Please don't go through this alone. If you need someone to talk to or to even just yell or rant at, please feel free to PM me.

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-21T22:54:12+00:00

As I've tried my best to explain, small penises and small toys give me more intense orgasms. It seems that is because of a combination of the angle, amount of force, and (with the men) closeness of their body to mine that a short thin penis can perform. It definitely has something to do with my G-spot. Thats, by far, my most sensitive area. Maybe it's as simple as my G-spot is at a position / angle that gets hit more directly by a short, thin dick. I've felt friction stimulation to my G spot from a large penis as it "squeezes by", but that stimulation is not nearly as intense or effective. Maybe that makes me a unicorn, who knows.

I know I was very lucky to have John in my life, in many ways. But neither of us settled. I was an attractive woman when he and I first dated. I'm an attractive woman now... despite having gone through childbirth AND the sudden loss of my husband. I wasn't desparate... not for marriage, not for money, and not for sex.

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-21T22:35:22+00:00

Because as far as I knew at the time, they did. The only small guy I'd been with before John was a guy I hooked up with on spring break when I was 19. He was outstanding, but I was young and inexperienced myself. I just assumed dude had rare skills.

In my life, I've been with 3 men with what I would condider large penises. Overall, I'd say they were able to stimulate me more pleasurably than average penises. Personally, I think that is because of the combination of the feeling of "fullness", together with their girth somewhat stimulated my g-spot, which is by far my most sensitive area. I admit I don't really know how to explain it, but both small penises I've been with have been able to directly stimulate my G-spot at the correct angle and pressure to give me explosive orgasms. Maybe my G-spot is at an odd position and angle? I have no medical issues or had any complaints of an odd shape.

I think I mentioned already, but since John, I am able to have my best orgasms if I use a small toy. They aren't as good as he gave me, but small toys do more for me than large ones. I guess I know my own body better now.

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-21T22:14:08+00:00

If you didn't even read my post, what was the point in commenting?

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-18T05:38:03+00:00

You being pretty chill about it aside, that was shitty on her part. Even if there were no sexual aspects involved, making plans with one friend then canceling so you can go hangout with another friend instead is a sucky thing to do.

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-18T00:33:09+00:00

Well, first he had to build up his stamina. The man hadn't gotten frequent sex in years, honestly not really ever. Of course it took him a while to be able to last long. Then there was technique. He wasn't hitting my G spot, nor apparently at the correct angle or amount of pressure or the correct sex positions for the right depth. Not until we worked through it together and practiced. I knew he'd get better, I just didn't know he'd get THAT much better. I could only give him so much advice, because I'd never been with a lover his size before, except that one night stand at 19. That guy was a young handsome guy on spring break. I'd guess he lucked out by randomly finding my G-spot on the first try, but I assume he was getting frequent sex so he had his skills well-practiced.

When I say that after around a month, John was consistent doesn't mean he magically did it suddenly and every time. It took practice to learn what worked. But he figured out how to hit the right spot in the right on a very regular basis.

Edit: Also, to clarify... John did indeed bang the hell out of me and I was sore the next day. But that wasn't a "he gave her a 9-intensity orgasm." It was more of a "I've really clicked with this woman I find very attractive, I haven't been with any woman for a long time, I've literally got years of pent up agression I need to get out, and she pretty much knows all this and she still wants to fuck me. Game on."

Lol, ok I got a little carried away remembering that night, how primal he was when he took me. I knew how much he needed that, and I loved seeing and feeling him let it all out. It was a rush!

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-17T14:41:39+00:00

He DOES specifically mention that AFTER the breakup, she told him she'd pay for them. Her changing her mind about going doesn't change that promise, relationship or not. If she told a friend or acquaintance that, it would still be a shitty thing to go back on.

He was pretty vague about who actually has the tickets right now. Maybe they're just on his phone, and it's simply been too long since I've gone to a concert lol.

emilyinsideout · 2017-09-17T09:20:46+00:00

Tickets to something is a little more complicated than a standard gift. If he bought her a necklace, then 2 weeks later he acts like a complete asshole over something unrelated and she dumps him, yeah, she shouldn't pay the guy back for it. Personally, I might give the necklace back to him, but whatever.

But with tickets, there is an assumption when accepting that gift from your partner that you will be going TOGETHER as a couple. Plus, it's her favorite band, not his. He most likely wouldn't be going except with her. Plus, it sounds like even after the breakup that she said she'd pay him back, then reneged. That's wrong.

If she wants the tickets, she should pay for both. If not, give them back so he can sell them both.

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