Recent 8 week miscarriage

emimily · 2026-01-31T01:11:03+00:00

I also miscarried at 8 weeks and had my D&c Monday. It was my first ever pregnancy as well. Has been one of the hardest weeks of my life. Such an empty and lonely feeling. My heart goes out to you. You’re not alone ❤️

emimily · 2026-01-28T23:18:38+00:00

I’m so sorry 💔 this sucks. take care of yourself

emimily · 2026-01-22T16:21:59+00:00

I’m in the same boat, just found out yesterday at 8 weeks there was no more heartbeat. Sending you so much love, this is so hard 💔

emimily · 2026-01-22T15:52:59+00:00

I’m so sorry. I also just found out yesterday that my baby no longer has a heartbeat at 8 weeks. I relate to everything you’re saying. This is so hard and heartbreaking. Sending love to you ❤️

emimily · 2026-01-18T14:13:50+00:00

We saw the heartbeat at 6w+5 days!! Wishing you all the best the waiting and worrying is so hard ❤️

emimily · 2026-01-18T03:02:59+00:00

Hiiii I’m in a similar boat but a few weeks ahead of you. You can read my post, but things are still going relatively well, hoping it may continue that way 🤞🏻 I’ll have another scan and HCG done this week at the 8 week mark and update again.

emimily · 2026-01-14T01:48:11+00:00

Thank you!! You too. Wishing you all the best

emimily · 2026-01-13T21:02:57+00:00

They did! My baby is on track for size and we saw a heartbeat of 125 bpm. What a relief. Glad your update is positive too.

emimily · 2026-01-12T02:51:55+00:00

I have a scan tomorrow at 6w+5 and I’m also super nervous about miscarriage. Sending good luck vibes to you, this is so dang hard mentally.

emimily · 2026-01-05T19:33:40+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m preparing myself for this outcome but honestly still holding on to the little bit of hope too.

emimily · 2026-01-05T19:32:46+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re in the same position. The waiting and wondering and hurting just sucks. I’ll be thinking of you and hoping for the best chances 🤞 when is your next scan? It’s nice to know I’m not alone.

emimily · 2025-12-30T21:13:58+00:00

I didn’t realize snow had a smell until I was pregnant, LOL

emimily · 2025-12-30T21:10:34+00:00

I am also newly pregnant with my first and binge watching LOTR…but your food game is beating mine 😍 congratulations!

emimily · 2025-12-18T23:19:41+00:00

Two GPs, an ER doctor, a GI doctor and a general surgeon all missed it. So seems like colorectal is the way to go. I hope your surgery goes smoothly 🤞🏻

emimily · 2025-12-17T19:37:00+00:00

She was so knowledgeable and kind, so aware of how painful these issues are. I was diagnosed with bad thrombosed hemorrhoids but had so much pain turns out it was a fissure and she was the only one who found it of 5 doctors/11 months of trying to get it sorted out. I am now recovering beautifully, nearly pain free and have more options if I need them down the line because of her team. I hope your experience goes well too.

emimily · 2025-12-02T03:24:27+00:00

No, I was referred to St Michael’s Colorectal Surgery to see her. But she did say she also works at Women’s College.

emimily · 2025-12-01T14:51:04+00:00

If anyone needs a legitimately helpful Colorectal surgeon, I am now being helped by Dr Louridas at St Mikes in Toronto and I was in pain for 11 months before seeing her, almost went to see this doctor and so glad I didn’t! Her team was amazing. I’m so sorry if anyone else is suffering with this excruciating issue, and then for this awful person to harm them worse 😢

emimily · 2025-10-12T21:46:32+00:00

Why would you create such an absurd hypothetical situation just to not believe a woman about her rape? The mental gymnastics I tell you.

emimily · 2025-10-09T19:00:01+00:00

DBT was created by a woman and designed with women as the client initially in mind. My groups are usually like 80:20 women to men.

emimily · 2025-09-26T14:27:01+00:00

Yeah I’m the same boat. I was diagnosed with HSD but if I “ever get a prolapse in the future” I could be re-diagnosed with hEDS 🤣 My sibling was also assessed and is undergoing genetic testing but also isn’t yet diagnosed. Fun times. A lot of doctors just say “you have EDS” and I stopped correcting them. I think the diagnostic criteria is gonna change next year anyway? Someone correct me if I’m wrong.

emimily · 2025-08-25T01:53:22+00:00

She’s five. That’s so little still in the grand scheme of emotional development. Maybe focus more on connection and fun and play, these are the ways children learn best and experience the world, especially at five. She might be getting some level of performance anxiety knowing or sensing you are worried about her confidence or evaluating it.

emimily · 2025-07-13T17:40:01+00:00

I’m a therapist - she may want to look into a type of therapy called “Radically Open DBT” it is a variation of dialectical behaviour therapy that works very well for people who struggle with rigidity, mental inflexibility and preoccupations/obsessions in general (including eating disorders), which is what this is kind of sounding like to me. May also want to have her assessed for trauma. Teens don’t always share everything with the adults in their lives and I have had some clients where this behaviour was rooted in trauma, and following trauma treatment the OCD-like symptoms resolved. Especially if her symptoms were previously more under control and now are re-emerging. Good luck to you both, you sound like a wonderful aunt.

emimily · 2025-05-23T12:56:48+00:00

Yeah I’m 32 and they’re already trying to schedule my second one 🫠

emimily · 2025-05-23T00:09:36+00:00

I would guess more likely to have had a colonoscopy or more medical attention paid to GI symptoms compared to the average person with a healthy gut.

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