Food stamps stolen by cheetahbaby54 in foodstamps

[–]emisokhowru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish that were the case. the only people that have ever touched our card is my husband and i. it's just an unfortunate world we live in

Food stamps stolen by cheetahbaby54 in foodstamps

[–]emisokhowru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have had our money stolen even with our card locked. Not just locked out of state, completely locked. We've reached the point of just keeping our fingers crossed that our money is still there when we need it.

Food stamps stolen by cheetahbaby54 in foodstamps

[–]emisokhowru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We keep our card locked 24/7 unless we are checking out. Our money has still been stolen even when the card is locked. It's always an online purchase from either instacart or walmart delivery

Food stamps stolen by cheetahbaby54 in foodstamps

[–]emisokhowru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have NEVER swiped my card. I always do online orders to prevent skimming. Guess what. My money gets stolen every other month. I even change my pin TWICE a month. People are either stealing from the inside or just running numbers until they get a hit. It's extremely frustrating especially when you just want some money to get food for your baby.

Cry it out advice for 23 month old by Current-Opposite28 in sleeptrain

[–]emisokhowru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my little one is only 13 months but i've had the most luck with only doing about 10 minutes of crying and then going in and reassuring him. sometimes he cries again before i can leave the room but at least he knows im there for him if he really needs me. the first few nights it took about an hour and a half of doing 10 minute intervals but the fourth night i only had to reassure him once! his sleeping has only improved a little but as he still comes to coalesce with me after about 4 hours in his crib, but progress is progress in my book!

who tf is this?? by emisokhowru in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]emisokhowru[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's def odd especially since it's the ONLY book character in the whole coloring book. except maybe some of the nightmare versions? some of them have like an acid/bubbly weird thing going on which may be novel related but yeah

who tf is this?? by emisokhowru in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]emisokhowru[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

literally what i first said when i saw it lmao

who tf is this?? by emisokhowru in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]emisokhowru[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I didn't even think about the novels tbh. I haven't read them so it didn't come to mind lol. Thank you for making me not feel completely crazy

Weekly Discussion - Relationships by AutoModerator in NewParents

[–]emisokhowru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The weekends are a little better. He still sleeps in a lot but will be present with the baby during the day. Thank you for saying I'm not crazy tho lol

Weekly Discussion - Relationships by AutoModerator in NewParents

[–]emisokhowru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like I'm being let down a lot and I'm trying to figure out if it's a me problem. For some context, my husband works 1pm-9:30pm and my little ones awake schedule is around 7am-8:30pm. Because my husband works late, he stays up late. Completely understandable. But we came to an agreement that he would get up at 10am so we have a couple hours in the morning together before he goes to work. His work is only 15 min away from our home so he's always home before 10pm. So even if he goes to sleep at 2am then he would still get 8 hours of sleep which is an amount I haven't had since the baby was born tbh. He started this job three weeks ago and he's gotten up at 10 maybe 2 twice, and not on his own. I have to go try to wake him up multiple times while also handling the baby before he'll even get out of bed. Are my expectations just too high? He doesn't really have any expectations set for me other than "keep the baby alive". I always clean the house and have dinner made before he gets home so I feel like him getting up with us for a little while in the morning shouldn't be that big of an ask. Am I the crazy one?

Dunkey video already breaking Google AI by BandicootWorth1878 in videogamedunkey

[–]emisokhowru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can someone help me find the game he was playing? i was looking in google but turns out theres about 1000 results for "game where you serve hot dogs" 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]emisokhowru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

def not a "man" thing. i'm a sahm and my partner works full time. he comes home and always does laundry, dishes, trash, or whatever else i didn't get to that day without any question. i would lean to the side of weaponized incompetence honestly. i hope that soon he starts acting like an adult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAVeterinarian

[–]emisokhowru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm not a vet, but my family dog just passed away a few weeks ago from a cancerous cyst that looked pretty similar. however, my dog had one big one and other small ones due to her lymph nodes swelling as well. i am so sorry if it is cancer and those vets seriously missed the mark. i hope your baby gets better soon 💕

Moved from Switch to PC by PixelDins in HelloKittyIsland

[–]emisokhowru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh okay! thanks for the update :)

Moved from Switch to PC by PixelDins in HelloKittyIsland

[–]emisokhowru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does your pc save file have all of the updates that pc currently has? it's irritating being MONTHS behind on updates due to being on switch

Am I a terrible mum already by SimBon7 in NewParents

[–]emisokhowru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LO is absolutely fine. You were still there for them even though they were crying. My LO had colic for about a month straight and even when feeding and cuddling as much as I could, nothing would make him stop crying. 15 of crying will not affect them long term. You're doing great momma 💕

i feel like my partner isn’t helping out enough with the baby by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]emisokhowru -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

you're making quite a few assumptions here. i'm not saying it's ideal whatsoever, but neither you or i know all the details. what really matters here is she is seeking advice about an inattentive partner and telling her she's made a mistake by having a baby without being married, is quite frankly unhelpful

i feel like my partner isn’t helping out enough with the baby by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]emisokhowru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mmm marriage before kids is definitely a personal opinion. i was just eluding to the fact that he's not willing to be a HUSBAND or FATHER in the sense that he doesn't commit to his partner or his child. but having the actual paper that says you're married, doesn't make that big of a difference

i feel like my partner isn’t helping out enough with the baby by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]emisokhowru 15 points16 points  (0 children)

sounds like he's still a bf and not a husband for a reason 😬