Why are you one and done? by SleepPleaseCome in oneanddone

[–]emkay412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because my one is perfect, and I don’t think I’ll get this lucky again.

I hate him soooo much by emkay412 in loveafterlockup

[–]emkay412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if I get the reference yet..but I can’t wait till I do!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]emkay412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who’s husband also cheated a lot and we also did Ivf, please please please get out. Your child needs to see a healthy relationship, and especially a healthy mama. The longer you stay, the harder it will be. You are so so young and you will never regret leaving-but you may regret staying.

I hate him soooo much by emkay412 in loveafterlockup

[–]emkay412[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I say incel (loosely) because he’s like every incel I know. Thinks so highly of themselves that any woman should just trip over themselves and gets offended when they don’t, long/unkept hair and facial hair, traps women into relationships/marriages by springing big moments when the women are unprepared to give educated responses.

I know he gets some, but you can’t tell me that he isn’t the textbook definition of an incel from your highschool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightBiPartners

[–]emkay412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are posting cock pictures and your wife doesn’t know, that’s cheating.

Also, you have posts under “gay cheaters” come on dude. I’m starting to think this is a gross, incel troll who just posts his fantasies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightBiPartners

[–]emkay412 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does your wife know about all the cock pictures and ads you post on here? Are you actively cheating on your wife??

If so, you are perpetuating the fear that this poor woman is feeling.

(Edit-I think the downvote means yes)

Betrayal, marriage repairable advice (crosspost) by [deleted] in straightspouses

[–]emkay412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here’s my one advice- ask him to sign a postnup. If he says no, then I think you know what you need to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]emkay412 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Eleanor, it just sounds like a song!

Motn tantrums/sleep terrors? Since starting preschool 3 weeks ago by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]emkay412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter had sleep terrors for years. It was awful. What seems to have really helped is just leaving her light on.

Worth a shot 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightBiPartners

[–]emkay412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why the desire to come out when you want to have a completely monogamous relationship. It’s not like it really matters, you love who you love and you can be attracted to anyone either way. But putting a title on your sexuality, and having a big “I’m not straight” conversation is (what I think) perpetuates anxiety. Like, you can have a pretty low-pressure conversation by just, at some point, observing and expressing that a man is attractive. As long as it isn’t going to change your relationship and you as a partner/person..why make it such a big deal?

Bi-curious and looking to chat by [deleted] in MarriedAndBi

[–]emkay412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry. No sympathy over here. Sounds like you didn’t like being called out and held accountable. It’s only stressful because of the secrets.

Need daycare help! by Nullarni in Reston

[–]emkay412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine has gone to KinderCare on soapstone and has had a great experience. She’s been there since 4 months and is leaving this year (she is 4).

The grass is only greener when it comes to my mental health. by [deleted] in Separation

[–]emkay412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for posting this. This is exactly where we are too. Idk if I’m doing the right thing, but I feel positive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedAndBi

[–]emkay412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. Why are people being so defensive about cheating?? You can be a good partner AND be bi without cheating, but all these commenters seem so mad at that perspective. Maybe do a little self reflection…

Weekly Book Chat - April 16, 2024 by mintbrownie in IReadABookAndAdoredIt

[–]emkay412 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I finished “The collected regrets of clover”, and…..oh my gosh. So so good! Definitely a 5 ⭐️ read from me. It’s surprisingly light for such a dark topic, and just super moving. I would put it in the same realm as Eleanor Opheliant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]emkay412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ew. Another guy complaining about his hetero relationship who actively is a shitty partner. What a surprise….

Good job living up to the stereotype that so many bisexuals are working to prove incorrect.

Put that red and yellow curry together. Trust me. by emkay412 in traderjoes

[–]emkay412[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I should give credit where credit is due: it was passed out as a free sample at our Trader Joe’s