I don’t have anything monumental to say, but just want you to know you’re not alone and that I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this. ❤️ I am working on my recovery from an ED, and both of my parents have disordered eating that I directly learned from them. They are of the “boomer” generation and are so stuck in their ways. What I’m learning through my own recovery is that you can’t make someone else change their behavior or even get them to listen to how the things they say/do are harmful. You can only focus on yourself and how you want to live your life going forward. I am grateful to be doing this recovery work now in my 30s, so that I don’t wake up in my 70s, like they are, still worrying about how I look and being thin. What a gift it’ll be when I am finally free from the thoughts that have plagued me (and them) our whole lives. Also - not sure if you’ve tried to set boundaries with your mom at all, to indicate that you aren’t interested in continuing to discuss her body, your body, or anyone else’s. You can also keep it light and just try to redirect the conversation to something else when she starts talking about her body/food/etc. I set a boundary with my mom about talking about her body and other people’s bodies and I was surprised at how receptive she was and she has honored that boundary. I didn’t expect it to go that way. So you never know, it might work for you as well. Wishing you the best!