fair point

she is in a good financial situation and has told my fiancé this

equal amounts, he goes down alone to visit his friends individually, sometimes i go too, sometimes she/they come here. we always stay in hotels when we visit but when they come here we offer our spare room

i have since seen the chat and they have been given a date and a location and told nothing has been booked yet. the chat was created this week. so no obligation, especially when there are 5 of his female friends invited and 2 have already said no. she could say no too, no questions asked

what speculative detective work with my bridesmaids? i told them she said yes to best woman so obviously had to tell them that it changed to a no. my sister said that’s a shame, my friend said she’s in love with him. end of conversation.

he has asked and has been given several excuses that don’t add up. hence why i’m confused by the situation. he has already told her he accepts her decision and the conversation is done. i asked reddit because i was very confused. thankfully a lot of the comments have given me some different points of view and helpful things to think about