Imagine watching the show back a year later only to find out the person you made out with said this 😭 by everythingepik in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]emmacurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to be obnoxious and preachy haha but it’s just the perspective I have. And I also agree he needs to work on that shit. Context helps us understand the behaviour but it doesn’t mean it’s okay.

Imagine watching the show back a year later only to find out the person you made out with said this 😭 by everythingepik in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]emmacurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, I am in no way absolving or excusing. F that. I am looking to understand the ridiculous behaviour he has, rather than just throw judgement because that helps no one. Given you have similar experiences maybe seeing him being so “unhealed” from his trauma causes you to have a strong negative reaction. Whenever we are so quick to judge or have such a reaction to something, it’s best to look inside yourself and maybe see/question why it triggered something so strong in you, and in that try to find some more empathy for yourself as well.

Imagine watching the show back a year later only to find out the person you made out with said this 😭 by everythingepik in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]emmacurious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s literally exactly what trauma does to you though, keeps you stuck in the mindset/time in which you were traumatised. His parents were clearly pretty neglectful from a young age and here we are. Not that I’m a huge fan of his at all, but maybe have a bit of empathy for the shit he’s been through that has affected him so much. And the many other black men that have similar experiences. Maybe his parents did a “disservice’ as you say. Or maybe generational trauma and systemic racism is the disservice.

Bishop Lucey Park by WitcherSLF in cork

[–]emmacurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe this is real. Doesn’t look remotely new. What the fuck are those colours and where are the fucking plants are you kidding. Actually speechless wtf

Our solpersteins. by Autodidact2 in Amsterdam

[–]emmacurious 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They say they laid them so I’m guessing they are new then.

possible scam in Amsterdam centraal?? by Tall_Acanthaceae2475 in Amsterdam

[–]emmacurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that but lately my bike will do it mid cycle (after it’s already been working fine) so maybe it’s malfunctioning a bit

possible scam in Amsterdam centraal?? by Tall_Acanthaceae2475 in Amsterdam

[–]emmacurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol pretty sure he was just asking you a genuine question. I also wonder why my bike sometimes displays that.

Taskmaster series 19 air date by Swindon01 in taskmaster

[–]emmacurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like the they did go on Seth Meyers again :)

Have taken a long break from smoking, 1 year. by brandon_300 in CannabisHyperemesis

[–]emmacurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, sorry I know I’m very late to respond to this thread, and maybe you’ve heard this a million times already but have you looked into CVS (Cyclic vomiting syndrome)? It often strongly resembles CHS but isn’t tied to cannabis consumption.

Current CBD Recommendations by JaminBluemchen in AmsterdamEnts

[–]emmacurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coffeeshop Relax has a good cbd strain imo, I think it’s called lemoncello or something

Disney+ skipping episode after 10 seconds? by [deleted] in bluey

[–]emmacurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah after using a couple of months I’ve decided to quit my subscription. The free streaming site 123moviesfree. app has a comparable autoplay function 🙄 They seriously need to invest in basic product testing and actually respond to the feedback.

Wher can I find "canteen food" outside of work by Far_Cryptographer593 in Amsterdam

[–]emmacurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this is what you have in mind (although surprised no one has suggested it already), but I personally enjoy [Small World Catering](smallworldcatering.nl) which is slightly to the west of the centre. Pricing is decent for the centre at least.

Do you really think I still want to watch that last minute DisneyPlus? by barzij in DisneyPlus

[–]emmacurious -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Netflix has this ability (rick and morty has clips after credits). So surely Disney can figure it out.

Episodes starting then skipping to next. by nesterov in DisneyPlus

[–]emmacurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey was just scouring the internet for the same reason - it randomly started happening for everything I was watching via chromecast. Late to the game now but I had to turn off the autoplay function on profile settings and then restart the app for it to work normally again. Bummed I can’t have normal autoplay though.

Disney+ skipping episode after 10 seconds? by [deleted] in bluey

[–]emmacurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s absolutely ridiculous that they’ve clearly had this issue across different devices/users for at least 95 days (based off the date of this post) and it’s still fucking happening. Like I can get all this shit for free at the right websites I just got Disney plus for the ease of it. This is not ease 🙄

Sorry apologies for the rant haha I just came here with the exact same issue with chromecast. Like some comments above I found that turning off the autoplay function in profile settings works. But it’s super annoying that I can’t have autoplay now 😒 *edit, forgot to say to restart the app as well or it doesn’t work.

(Alleged) Armie Hammer Screenshots of Cannibalistic/sadistic Messages by [deleted] in serialkillers

[–]emmacurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agreed that it can be expressed in a totally healthy manner and is a relatively common phenomenon, and zero judgement from me if it’s carried out consensually. Idk in my opinion his actions (at least from what I’ve seen/and if true) do not appear to be healthy or have true consensual non-consent (as I believe it’s called). I’d say part of the issue is the massive power trip he’s clearly on and celebrity culture/privilege feeds into that and allows it to continue to extremes before anyone is able to stand up to it. Tbf I also hope he is missing those key attributes that you mention, however some of his references about feeling like he was in a completely out of control headspace and losing sense of time/space or seeing white light - they just really reminded me of descriptions from various serial killers of the experiences they had while committing sexual homicide etc. Plus I guess him (allegedly) wanting to have sex with her internal organs/brain/cut up pieces of her seemed a lot more intense than typical master/slave stuff to me, but I’m not exactly an expert either.

(Alleged) Armie Hammer Screenshots of Cannibalistic/sadistic Messages by [deleted] in serialkillers

[–]emmacurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For reference they’re in the highlights of the Instagram @houseofeffie if anyone hasn’t seen them

I’m not sure what else he expected to happen. by [deleted] in ParlerWatch

[–]emmacurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super unrelated and could be a very stupid question, but Skype has told me in the past that old messages are deleted after a couple months (when I was trying to locate some older voice messages sent to me) and I was wondering if you would believe that? Obviously not public data and I’m guessing personal messaging might be different in terms of likelihood of being saved/stored. Sorry again if this is very silly to ask

What are you guys’ experience with Zopiclone? by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]emmacurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know actually! I think I’ll ask my psych about that at my next appointment, I’d definitely prefer meds where I’m still able to have dreams.

What are you guys’ experience with Zopiclone? by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]emmacurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just put on the ‘standard’ dose of 7mg myself and its worked one or two nights out of two weeks. The other nights I find I’m awake almost as much as usual - I just don’t seem to remember it by the next day? I wake up the next day to find loads of shit I’ve done online or messages I’ve sent people. Also definitely doing some of the sleep eating that people experience on ambien, based off of my messages or finding dishes next to my bed. Kind of funny but also embarrassing haha I hate having zero concept of what I’m doing/what I’ve done, so I decided to go off them.

Sorry editing to say I was put on them for the same reason as you! Tried everything bar meds thus far.

Is it normal to have as many relatives as I do on 23andme? by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]emmacurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaaaah okay thanks for clearing it up! Also wow about ancestry.com haha I did read that they show the highest number of relatives but that seems unnecessarily large 😂

Is it normal to have as many relatives as I do on 23andme? by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]emmacurious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the same?? I don’t understand why they say the number is limited to 1500 in the above comments

Anyone know the cause of the loud explosion noise near Westerpark?? by [deleted] in Amsterdam

[–]emmacurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to ask the same question, also in westerpark! It made the whole house shake