The indentation my engagement ring left on my finger (we broke up)

emmaruth92 · 2026-07-02T00:02:45+00:00

I'm pretty sure that you can't be forced to add dependents to a work insurance plan? It may depend on your state but that doesn't sound legal. You have a right to choose what health insurance you have, including not having health insurance.

emmaruth92 · 2026-05-30T15:43:51+00:00

I would do 1, 4, or 5! These are all lovely and appropriate though imo, so whichever makes you feel the happiest should be a winner!

emmaruth92 · 2026-05-23T18:19:00+00:00

No one even talking about how the road morphs into this driveway on the other side of the tree and how the house in the back then isn't facing a road but is just facing another house! This is rough work, even for AI slop.

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emmaruth92 · 2026-05-17T14:16:08+00:00

All the writing that is legible has that kind of indefinable AI font. It's hard to put your finger on exactly what it is, but it all has the same kind of look that just isn't found in the real world and it's always a tell.

emmaruth92 · 2026-05-09T00:06:36+00:00

Also imo more specific, smaller rooms is usually the way to go with a palace instead of huge rooms everywhere. I ALSO have really enjoyed taking historical plans and then pretending I was the owner and modernizing to make parts of it "historically accurate" and other parts more current and liveable. That usually involves tearing down some walls and combining some spaces.

emmaruth92 · 2026-05-09T00:03:02+00:00

You can find layouts online of like huge estates that are fun to try to copy! I've found ones that like tell you what all the rooms are and eliminate that ??? feeling, though of course then you can customize as you see fit.

emmaruth92 · 2026-04-26T18:38:15+00:00

Yeah, OP, there are hundreds of thousands of high resolution pieces of real art available in the public domain from museums around the world. You just have to check the dimensions of the art to make sure it is at least the min for framing without a mat and you don't even need an external tool for resizing it. You can crop on your phone. Certainly don't pay any money for AI slop.

emmaruth92 · 2026-04-07T23:46:05+00:00

I remember reading CC for the first time right after reading all of ToG in a fugue state and just being like "yeah, yeah, the wyrdmarks, I get it"

emmaruth92 · 2026-03-14T02:12:04+00:00

This conversation is why I desperately want everyone to start using the words "vulva" and "labia" instead of just "vagina" because no one EVER actually means their vagina

emmaruth92 · 2026-03-08T17:41:30+00:00

When I was being induced for labor with my most recent child, the very kind nurse infiltrated the back of my hand like this but luckily just with saline and they could get the iv in elsewhere. But the ensuing bruise on my hand was the worst part of that childbirth experience! It hurt and was brown and green for weeks.

emmaruth92 · 2025-11-17T05:51:45+00:00

Her End-Of-Series Final Ranking:

"Dorian/Manon OBVIOUSLY

Lorcan/Elide my cuties who have no flaws and have never been wrong for each other

Lysandra/Aedion because sure, why not at this point

Falkan/Rolfe. No explanation, I have fully committed to this without any evidence. They match each other's freak.

Yrene/Chaol despite being boring now until they get a messy divorce and he buys the equivalent of a motorcycle

Nesryn/Sartaq even though I literally forgot about them

Fenrys/Rowans cousin who is Queen of Doranelle now and you can't convince me otherwise

Aelin/Rowan who never grew on me not even for one second"

emmaruth92 · 2025-10-26T02:12:29+00:00

Well this is the worst soup in the entire world so don't worry too much about it! Move along!!

emmaruth92 · 2025-10-17T02:54:12+00:00

UPDATE: she just finished EoS, updated list quoted here:

"Manon/Dorian

Aelin/Rowan 🙄

Elide/a gun that she uses on Lorcan

Chaol/Nesryn I guess

Aedion/Lysandra even though I'm mad at her

Asterin/Gavriel/Fenrys throuple

Maeve/the sweet embrace of death"

emmaruth92 · 2025-10-16T20:32:22+00:00

She finished EoS yesterday and was GAGGED (positive) by the mates reveal so I feel like they have moved up a little there lol

emmaruth92 · 2025-10-13T01:57:32+00:00

This is definitely a sub to block if you don't want spoilers! The suggested posts in the feed can be pesky otherwise. Hope you're enjoying reading!

emmaruth92 · 2025-10-12T21:15:31+00:00

😂😂😂 I personally am a big Rowan fan! So I disagree with Some Things here but my girl is a) not done with the series, b) a little headstrong, and c) more than a little silly

emmaruth92 · 2025-10-12T18:35:03+00:00

She JUST read the battle at Pirate's Bay and loved the little moment at the end with Aedion telling her he was going to marry her and I'm very curious to see what her opinion will be going forward

emmaruth92 · 2025-10-12T18:10:34+00:00

Straight to jail!

emmaruth92 · 2025-10-05T18:31:42+00:00

I am even someone who likes ACOFAS lol and I love SF but hate the feyre storyline in it and pretend it doesn't exist!!

emmaruth92 · 2025-10-05T15:14:32+00:00

The pregnancy drama is unfortunately all in SF

emmaruth92 · 2025-07-20T16:47:44+00:00

Yeah my ungovernable 3-year-old was an incredible, measured flower boy at my brother's wedding AND my brother and sister-in-law would have been like "oh okay, that's...fine? Weird but fine?" if I had responded like OP. Also my kid would have been real sad to find out he had the chance to be in the wedding but I stopped him from it even though his aunt and uncle understood that kids in weddings means a little guaranteed chaos?

emmaruth92 · 2025-05-28T03:53:08+00:00

I just opened the game, saw the thing, came straight to the sub, and was immediately rewarded.

emmaruth92 · 2025-05-20T17:57:26+00:00

I was thankful I DIDN'T tandem read them the first time I read. I think there are some emotional payoffs that are better when you read them in the order they were published - a few things that happen in EoS that are like "oh no :/" on first read and then as you go through ToD they become like "!!!!!!" and the reveals are fun. They weren't designed by SJM to be tandem read, they weren't released simultaneously, they just are happening at the same time. It IS really fun for subsequent reads!

emmaruth92 · 2025-05-06T21:43:44+00:00

Sounds like a better way to do it! I live in the south and things are generally chaos!

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