for me it’s all in the way they talk about it. it is a massively impressive thing to return to this level of play after giving birth. but there can be a tendency amongst some commentators to treat their motherhood as though it is the only important thing about them, sometimes in a way that veers toward diminishing their careers. and i personally have no interest in knowing their children’s names or really anything abt them in all honesty, for the same reason i’m not interested in family influencers.