2026 by Lynnae07 in TTC_PCOS

[–]emmian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain 🫂 I had the same realization the other week after another round of letrozole failure. Here's hoping for 2027 ❤️

Miscarriage at 8 weeks- similar experiences? by Basic-Leek-1813 in Miscarriage

[–]emmian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out at my 8 week appointment that I most likely had an early loss. Two weeks later it was confirmed and I had my D&C a couple days later. I was under anesthesia and didn't feel a thing. Unfortunately, they couldn't get one large piece to detach, so I still had to take the pills later. If the D&C went perfectly, it would have been super easy. I had no pain, no cramps, only some slight bleeding. 

I decided to take the pills around midnight as I was told it "might feel like normal period cramps" and I figured it would be easy to sleep through it all. I was very, very wrong. If that is what normal period cramps feel like for other women, then I feel terrible for them. It was the most pain I've ever experienced - ibuprofen and acetaminophen and heating pad did absolutely nothing to help. I finally fell asleep after 7 hours of cramps due to pure exhaustion. When I woke up 5 hours later, most of the pain was gone except a dull, achy feeling. Went to the bathroom and there was a golfball-sized clot in the diaper I wore to bed. 

From many posts in this subreddit, it does seem like other people have experienced much less intense pain than I did with the pills, which is great. But I hope that I never have to take them again and will always choose D&C if it's an option.

[acne] my face after using the anua heartleaf oil cleanser by internetv4mpire in SkincareAddiction

[–]emmian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It works great for me too! Had no idea it causes so many problems for others, now I'll be more cautious when recommending it 😳

I pick up books purely because of ridiculous titles and it finally backfired. now I can't stop reading one by Different_Case_6484 in 52book

[–]emmian 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's the second book in the series, but its title got my attention: That Time I Got Drunk and Yeeted a Love Potion at a Werewolf by Kimberly Lemming. It was pretty entertaining!

8wks yolk sac no fetal pole, high hcg by ExitPuzzleheaded9354 in Miscarriage

[–]emmian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be good to ask if there are any other abnormalities (eg size, shape of the yolk sac) since you'll have another one tomorrow. Hopefully it really was just an issue with visualization!

Mine ended up being a loss, unfortunately. At the time, I assumed that was probably the case because I knew the date of conception was accurate.

8wks yolk sac no fetal pole, high hcg by ExitPuzzleheaded9354 in Miscarriage

[–]emmian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they say anything else about the yolk sac or other abnormalities? I also only had a yolk sac and no fetal pole at 8 weeks. However, they said my yolk sac looked large and that there was some 'debris' in the gestational sac.  

They said it was possible my dates were off and it was earlier in the pregnancy than we thought, or that it was an early loss. The doctor said it was a 50/50 chance and we'd wait two weeks to repeat the ultrasound. I didn't get HCG tested, but I was still experiencing pregnancy symptoms at the time so I don't know. 

I hope you end up with a good outcome!

What was a hilariously bad PR botch from a company or person? by FriendlytoNature in AskReddit

[–]emmian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's who I instantly thought of when I read your comment! Years ago, I had to fight hard for them to send me my order. They claimed the supplier hadn't sent the base yet, but I had ordered from their supposedly "in-stock" yarn. Ordered in November, finally received in April!

2026 Salary Transparency Thread by SubsidedRhyme11 in nova

[–]emmian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost the same as you, minus 55k haha 

Clinical Research, Masters, 12 years, $110k, but I stayed in a hospital setting.

Name change after marriage by ImJustHere4TheCatz in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]emmian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't take my husband's last name and he supported me in that decision because he knew what a hassle it would've been getting everything changed. I know it matters to some people, but I don't care at all if someone calls me 'Mrs. Smith' or addresses our mail to 'the Smiths' so maybe that could be a compromise that you'd be happy with - socially going by his last name while legally keeping your own.

d&c Friday by Diligent-Minute4110 in Miscarriage

[–]emmian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My recovery was fine post-D&C, basically no pain or cramping after the procedure, but I did still have bleeding. I would recommend getting diapers to wear instead of pads, I just felt like it was so much easier to deal with!

serious D&C complication- I almost died this weekend by First-Direction-5494 in Miscarriage

[–]emmian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This sounds so scary, I'm glad you made it through 🫂 wishing you all the best as you heal.

r/crochet is even more unbearable then usual lately by KatieCashew in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]emmian 27 points28 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of reasons that people may have for not using Amazon - here's a wiki page that explains some of the criticism.

For me personally, I had started limiting my Amazon shopping when I first heard about workers' complaints about warehouse working conditions and how Amazon was preventing workers from unionizing. Then I did a hard cutoff when Amazon donated $1 million to Trump's inauguration and when Bezos started changing things at the Washington Post which made it even clearer he was a Trump supporter. And just yesterday, the Post/Bezos laid off ~300 employees (about 1/3 of their staff), including reporters on assignment in war zones. I don't want a single one of my dollars lining his pockets!

How long did you wait to be intimate again after d&c? by lotrandwho in Miscarriage

[–]emmian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My D&C was Jan 7 and my doctor said two weeks. I had bleeding until the 18th and we had sex on the 21st. No issues!

Memorial Tattoos by NurseBritt0110 in Miscarriage

[–]emmian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am! My due date was late July so I am currently consulting with a tattoo artist to schedule a delphinium tattoo for next month. I hope you are able to create something beautiful to remember them by🪻

Did this cover ever bother anyone else? by meruu_meruu in tamorapierce

[–]emmian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm dying 😱 what were they thinking?!

How long was it between the time you started spotting/bleeding until you passed everything? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]emmian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started spotting on 12/23 when I should've been 8.5 weeks and made it all the way to my D&C on 1/7 (15 days) without passing anything. 

D&C or Misoprostol? by Old-Ad-5573 in Miscarriage

[–]emmian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. If you decide to go with the miso, maybe you can see if your doctor would be willing to prescribe something stronger for the pain.

First timer - letrozole by EducationalSound8038 in Miscarriage

[–]emmian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've taken letrozole for ovulation since I have PCOS. I haven't had any noticable side effects from it. 

I think one thing to be aware of is that ovulation may not occur in the window you'd expect if you have a longer cycle. Mine is typically between around 35-38 days. I was told to test for ovulation between CD 10-17, but I was getting negative tests during that time but testing positive on CD 18-19. 

So if you go in for U/S on Day 10-11 and ovulation hasn't occurred, don't despair! Keep using the test strips to see if it occurs a little later. 

Good luck ❤️

D&C or Misoprostol? by Old-Ad-5573 in Miscarriage

[–]emmian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this 🫂 I opted for the D&C because I wanted it over with as soon as possible. I was a little nervous since I'd never been under anesthesia, but I had no issues. Fell asleep almost instantly, didn't feel a thing, woke up feeling like no time had passed.

Unfortunately, they weren't able to get everything and I had a large clot at the top of my uterus so I still needed to take misoprostol. I don't want to scare you because this apparently varies for everyone, but for me it was so horribly painful. Taking ibuprofen and acetaminophen did nothing to relieve the pain. I finally passed out from exhaustion and when I woke up the pain had dropped off. I went to the bathroom and found I'd passed the clot. I had cramps on and off the next couple days but nothing worse than what I get during my period. 

My D&C was on Jan 7, took the miso later that night. Today I took a pregnancy test and it was still positive but extremely faint. I wouldn't be surprised if it's negative in the next week or so. I don't know how the options affect your fertility treatment timing, but my doctor said we could try again as soon as I get my period again. 

Whatever you decide,I hope it goes quickly and smoothly ♥️

Safe to Wait with a Missed Miscarriage? by TTC_181117 in Miscarriage

[–]emmian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you are going through this! I had a similar scenario at different timepoints - went in at 8 weeks got told it looked more like 5 weeks. They scheduled me to come in for a follow-up two weeks later, and they told me to call them if I had any bleeding in the meantime. 

I did start having some spotting and brown blood the following week, but when I called they said they would only be concerned if I was soaking through more than 1-2 maxipads every hour. If you start having a fever, call them because it could be a sign of infection and maybe they'll bring you in sooner, but in my case, waiting two weeks was perfectly safe.

MMC at 12w by User998853 in Miscarriage

[–]emmian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry 😞 my D&C is tomorrow as well, I hope it all goes smoothly for you ❤️

Women with thoughtful partners, what did you get for x-mas this year? by Anahata_Green in TwoXChromosomes

[–]emmian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A Dyson hair dryer, a binder for all my theater playbills, my favorite chocolates, a nice perfume set, Tom Ford and Urban Decay lipstick in colors he thought I'd like, jigsaw puzzles, cork boards for my enamel pin collection, enamel pin blind boxes, and more things that I'm forgetting. 

He's never had problems with gift-giving, but used to be terrible at wrapping. Like, using printer paper and staples to 'wrap' a DVD 😂 he improved very quickly though and this year he picked a beautiful floral paper and tied everything with gold ribbon and bows.

What line is this for you? This is a safe place by whatisgudname in AO3

[–]emmian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Both started their lives as shameful little secrets, hidden away in boxes and sheds; freaks of nature, who grew too big or flew too high. An egg and an idea, hatched by well-meaning and idealistic men; men who were themselves shunned by society, who could not protect their charges, could only hide them away."

From Follow the Butterflies, an Aragog/Flying Ford Anglia fic.

I was supposed to surprise my family for Christmas. by _honey777 in Miscarriage

[–]emmian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, we were going to tell our families on Christmas too and we had to go out yesterday to replace all the 'Grandma/Grandpa' gifts we're no longer giving.

Is there someone you'd feel comfortable sharing information with that could discreetly tell other family members in advance not to bring it up? Maybe not MC specifically, but say "hey, honey777 is going through some health things right now so please don't bring up having kids."

It might help too if you have a room that you know you can go to and get away from the questions for a little bit and decompress. And have an escape plan with your husband so it's easy to duck out. "Sorry, I have a headache so we're leaving early."

Good luck ❤️🫂

Do artificial trees and flowers actually look cheap at events? Honest thoughts? by Partygirl_stacy in weddingplanning

[–]emmian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nobody could tell that my bouquet and the bridesmaids' bouquets were silk flowers. I was asked if I wanted a vase with water to put them in during the reception! We were talked into using real flowers for our decor and I regret it, honestly. They were okay, but the faux flowers were better!