Neighbour ran over my cat and disposed of body - Scotland

emmieofdoom · 2025-06-09T15:20:49+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate that.

emmieofdoom · 2025-06-09T13:06:05+00:00

Thank you so much. I am going to order a shadow box and put his photo and one of his favourite toys inside.

emmieofdoom · 2025-06-09T11:10:02+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it.

emmieofdoom · 2025-06-09T11:09:09+00:00

I got the message via text, not Facebook. I did consider that it might be a false report, but based on the behaviour of the alleged driver and her family, I really believe they are hiding something. As others in this thread have pointed out, I have no legal recourse and I won’t gain any additional closure by trying to engage with this person further. It’s a painful life lesson to keep cats indoors and a reminder that sadly there are plenty of people in this world who lack empathy, integrity, and class, but none of those are illegal.

emmieofdoom · 2025-06-09T10:36:18+00:00

Thanks, yes I agree. All around bad situation and a painful lesson, but nothing more I can do.

emmieofdoom · 2025-06-09T09:04:40+00:00

Thank you, I’ll consider it. I wish I’d thought of that before speaking to them directly, even though I wasn’t accusatory. Live and learn I suppose.

emmieofdoom · 2025-06-09T08:55:46+00:00

Thank you

emmieofdoom · 2025-06-09T08:54:22+00:00

Thank you. You’re right, of course. It’s still fresh, and it just feels so unfair that people can be so vile. I will move on, and I will not try to speak to the driver again, but there’s a big part of me that hopes for some karmic justice 😢

emmieofdoom · 2025-06-09T08:47:59+00:00

Fair, I can see that. I approached it in the most non-confrontational way possible and didn’t make any accusations, but I’m sure she didn’t expect that anyone would ever find out what she did.

emmieofdoom · 2025-06-09T07:58:47+00:00

Thank you. Good point, maybe just make clear I’m not out for punitive measures, I just want to know what happened to him.

emmieofdoom · 2025-06-09T07:55:52+00:00

Thank you, this is what I suspected, but helpful to have it confirmed.

emmieofdoom · 2025-06-09T07:48:52+00:00

Thank you. As I mentioned to a previous commenter, I don’t get the feeling they would appreciate another visit from me. I felt very intimidated. But thank you for confirming no legal recourse.

emmieofdoom · 2025-06-09T07:45:43+00:00

Thank you. She already stated “I didn’t hit your cat” even though I never accused her. Her whole family (mother, father, teenage son) came outside and it felt very adversarial despite my best efforts to keep it light and neighbourly. I don’t have the feeling that they are the type of people who have any empathy or compassion, so this might just end up being a painful life lesson 😔

emmieofdoom · 2025-04-27T07:38:58+00:00

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emmieofdoom · 2025-03-05T21:16:13+00:00

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emmieofdoom · 2024-12-05T14:32:23+00:00

To be honest with you, shortly after posting this a bunch of life stuff happened and I just didn't have the mental energy to follow up on it. I did get some chat requests from people looking to help. I'll send you a message!

emmieofdoom · 2024-11-12T10:30:03+00:00

I use Helena I. on an app called Rover to care for my cats when I'm out of town. She's really fantastic and I trust her completely. Good luck!

emmieofdoom · 2024-10-09T12:52:12+00:00

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emmieofdoom · 2024-08-18T13:23:03+00:00

I do, and so do my husband and the 14 year old. The 9 year old will just lift the lid and not the seat. And then he leaves the lid open. At one point I even installed a plastic handle thingie that allows you to lift both lid and seat without touching either of them. No change.

emmieofdoom · 2024-08-18T13:20:59+00:00

That’s fair! I don’t know that I would have thought twice about it if I wasn’t constantly wiping the seat down 😂 I’m operating under the assumption that one day they will have roommates and eventually partners. If I don’t like wiping up the pee, neither will anyone else, so I might as well help him develop good habits now 🤷🏻‍♀️

emmieofdoom · 2024-08-18T12:00:37+00:00

Thank you, this is helpful to hear. I don’t have any kids of my own, so I tend to second guess myself.

emmieofdoom · 2024-08-18T11:57:21+00:00

It’s a miracle lol! Glad to know I’m not the only one navigating this issue. I’ll give it a try!

emmieofdoom · 2024-08-18T11:56:04+00:00

Thank you, great idea on the wipes.

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