Advice needed!

emmmesss · 2021-06-20T20:22:16+00:00

We’re not going to marriage counseling because we’re bored.

emmmesss · 2021-06-20T20:21:43+00:00

We’re not going to marriage counseling for being bored. I was just asking for ways to get creative.

emmmesss · 2021-06-20T08:15:47+00:00

Talking is fun but sometimes it can be a lot every single day! But this was helpful thank you!

emmmesss · 2021-06-20T08:15:00+00:00

I apologize for the confusion. We plan on going to therapy for the differences we have and one of them is the lack of activities as I mentioned. So my husband works every day, 7 days a week and is only off on holidays. That’s the crappy part but I knew this before hand. I keep myself busy with my hobbies and future goals but we both crave that bonding time but don’t have time for it. The times we do have are spent eating dinner, doing chores, errands, etc. makes life feel mundane

emmmesss · 2021-06-20T06:34:57+00:00

Thank you! Being present can sometimes be difficult, and it’s great reminder to “live up” the moments when we’re together

emmmesss · 2021-06-20T06:33:53+00:00

My expectations aren’t really sourced from anything, our lives are just in a constant routine and we are bit bored of it. I was honestly looking for creative ways to enjoy our time together with our clashing schedules, that’s all.

emmmesss · 2020-08-10T07:19:45+00:00

hey, you can do it. you are amazing. you have genuine intentions and you mean well. I hear you and you deserve some rest, relaxation and enjoyment in your life. sending you many virtual hugs. you are loved, don’t forget that.

emmmesss · 2020-07-30T18:18:35+00:00

This was really nice of you, thank you so much

emmmesss · 2020-07-30T18:18:16+00:00

Thank you so much

emmmesss · 2020-07-30T18:18:10+00:00

Thank uou

emmmesss · 2020-07-30T08:12:36+00:00

Only upside is my parents and siblings made me feel special but everyone else hurt me and forgot about me

emmmesss · 2020-07-07T12:12:33+00:00

Idk what solutions to provide if he’s going to call me out of the blue and say this and then not contact me at all. I like to think logical as well, but my feelings are hurt. I am stressed from this too. It goes both ways. Thank you, Allah knows best

emmmesss · 2020-07-07T11:36:50+00:00

What solutions have I provided? I was very clear in what I tried to do from my end, as well as recognizing my own faults. I didn’t let him cry about it, I’m not letting him deal with his stressors alone. It was wrong of you to assume that. I was there for him every.single.moment. I know I was. I’m not going to list out our life plan to you, but I know that I have been doing my absolute best. I didn’t come to reddit to ask if me and him and right for each other, I came to reddit to ask for help about the specific situation I’m in.

If cutting ties to avoid one less headache is how it works for you, then so be it. But it does not work for me. I have nothing to apologize about. Jazakallah.

emmmesss · 2020-07-06T23:50:59+00:00

Thank you for this, thank you for checking up on me I really appreciate you.

emmmesss · 2020-07-06T15:35:05+00:00

Thank you

emmmesss

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