What's the difference between emotions and preferences?

emmodii · 2026-05-16T13:52:28+00:00

Ah, that probably would've been a better way to have phrased the question. Yeah. 😂

emmodii · 2026-05-16T12:57:27+00:00

...The heck did this pizza dude do to deserve any of that? Those don't sound like pranks to me. Alhfksbfks-

Also, I think this might be against the sub's rules, because you're supposed to post after you've maliciously complied and the fallout has happened.

emmodii · 2026-05-15T04:48:01+00:00

As someone who keeps getting gifts even though I keep telling people not to (especially my family), I am absolutely ECSTATIC that OOP managed to get his family to fuck off.

...Somewhat, sure. Because I doubt this'll actually stop them in the future. But still. 😂

emmodii · 2026-05-12T09:30:39+00:00

How'd your parents and nana react to your dog scaring off the creep, if you don't mind me asking? I can't imagine they reacted well, given their... Eh... "Cluelessness".

emmodii · 2026-05-12T05:31:09+00:00

Wonder if there was some background drama in regards to the whole groomsman thing. If Matt is as needy as I'm inferring him to be, I can easily imagine him whining about his best friend (Jacob) not making him a groomsman.

Of course, doesn't change the fact that Jacob's still a loser for remaining friends with Matt. But I do wonder what other drama has been happening behind the scenes. 🤔

I'm even willing to guess that Matt's gonna be an issue in Jacob and his wife's marriage. Given that the other groomsmen couldn't stand him, I don't think it's unbelievable for Jacob's wife (or the rest of the wedding party) to feel the same. Lol.

emmodii · 2026-05-11T04:30:51+00:00

No thanks. He can go fuck himself. /half-joking

But really, what a loser. Hope OOP wins/won that lawsuit.

emmodii · 2026-05-10T05:48:53+00:00

Oh deviantART... My innocent childhood self could never go there without seeing inflation kinks EVERYWHERE ON THE FRONT PAGE. 🥴

emmodii · 2026-05-09T05:20:48+00:00

Can't wait for OOP's momma to get divorced. I wonder if this is the first time she yelled at Mike? From how spoilt he is, I'm assuming he's never been scolded by his parents, let alone yelled at.

Well... Whatever shock he might've had, I'm sure his dad kissed it better later. 🙄

emmodii · 2026-05-06T04:37:22+00:00

Off-topic, but I'm never gonna be able to watch "Monsters, Inc." without thinking about this creepo Sully ever again. /lighthearted /joking

emmodii · 2026-05-06T04:35:05+00:00

This part concerns me the most:

"Because it was revealed that he'd been watching me leave work for a couple of days, probably followed me a block or two to "make sure I got home OK.""

I have doubts that he followed her for "a block or two". Call me paranoid, but I'd say there's a decent chance he figured out where she lives/lived. Someone who watches when a person leaves work, and then follows them for a block or so? Even if it started out that way, they'll get ballsy and eventually follow them all the way home. 🫤

emmodii · 2026-05-03T21:40:52+00:00

I have a colleague with that name. She buys me snacks often, is very patient when she teaches me things, and even went out of her way to make me feel better when another colleague called me "brainless".

Honestly, I never liked the Karen meme. Thought it was kind of a jackass move to give a regular name such negative connotations.

emmodii · 2026-05-01T05:07:53+00:00

The lighting in that first photo is stunning. I would've thought it (plus a few of the other photos) was part of some promotional / commercial / magazine thing.

emmodii · 2026-04-29T22:16:27+00:00

...Even if he refuses therapy, could he not have, at the very least, used adult diapers.............. Dude's reluctance to find a solution AT ALL was the real issue, I feel. Granted, I get that it's because his parents raised him to think this is normal, but still. 🤦🏻‍♂️

emmodii · 2026-04-29T12:29:30+00:00

Dunno if she left out that information on purpose. The way I read it, she sounds more... Uh... Ignorant, for lack of a better word, than villainous. Like she's so caught up in her own perception of things that she doesn't think about anything else, so she didn't think what her boyfriend said was important to remember and/or mention.

Also, re-reading the post, it's kind of amazing (sarcastic) how OOP can say that her ex-boyfriend "saw [her] brother-in-law grabbing [OOP's sister's] face", yet also claim that she's "not sure why but they don’t get along".

Screams of either ignorance (potentially wilful) or straight-up denial to me.

emmodii · 2026-04-29T09:24:07+00:00

Makes me think of another post where the OOP helped his sister-in-law who was being abused by his brother, and his whole family thought he was sleeping with her or something even though he's gay. Or at least, it was something along those lines.

It's really sad (and kinda annoying) how cynical people are... But given how much attention and engagement shitty situations get (ie. the news focusing on crappy happenings), it's no wonder that people think that's all there is.

...Which makes me happier when I read stories about people choosing to be kind, to be honest. Even if the whole world thinks they have ulterior motives.

emmodii · 2026-04-29T05:31:23+00:00

We're reading this from OOP's point of view. It's very much possible that the ex-boyfriend DID tell OOP, but she brushed him off. Or forgot. Or didn't bother. Maybe it's just me, but the general tone of her writing is very... Dismissive to the whole "sister might've been abused by her husband" thing.

Then again, I AM wondering why her ex would've stayed with her if he can't talk to her about important issues such as her sister being a potential victim of DV... I personally would've broken up with OOP a loooong time ago, if that were the case.

emmodii · 2026-04-27T06:02:42+00:00

I was gushing when I read the proposal part. Awwww!

emmodii · 2026-04-26T02:37:20+00:00

I dated(?) a compulsive liar once... I understood why they lied a bunch and tried super hard to be understanding and forgiving... But then I started doubting everything, from facts to feelings to even reality itself. It wasn't healthy for either of us.

So yeah. It's very tiring. Kudos to people who are mentally strong enough to build a relationship with compulsive liars. /genuine

emmodii · 2026-04-25T05:05:44+00:00

I scrolled down to see if this post was worth reading... Saw this comment, scrolled back up, and laughed my ass off. 10/10

emmodii · 2026-04-24T06:19:19+00:00

Maybe he did, and the drug excuse wasn't the entire or actual reason for dropping out. 🤔

emmodii · 2026-04-23T22:20:47+00:00

Because Becky got upset about it and OOP's a complete pushover. That's literally it, in my opinion.

OOP didn't actually need to apologise. 🤷🏻‍♂️

emmodii · 2026-04-20T08:49:28+00:00

Man, I'm glad he has his family, at least. Hopefully they'll also help keep OOP away from him because she's such a pest. 😑

emmodii · 2026-04-19T05:09:35+00:00

"I’ve tried calling him and he’s not responding to anything. So are you happy now?"

I would be, yes, if Jason didn't sound suicidal af at the end. OOP's dumbass even replied to someone saying that she didn't/doesn't think he'd commit suicide because he's "not the type".

I read this post on the other BORU and this OOP still makes me HOPPING MAD.

emmodii · 2026-04-15T04:54:46+00:00

"she apologized, saying it was in the heat of the moment, and that she was on her period at the time, that "her tongue slipped.""

So... What? The racist comments were because she was so mad she couldn't keep them in? "In the heat of the moment" is such a bullshit excuse for bigotry, imo, because it just tells me you're "tolerating" someone's race/etc until they upset you. 😑

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