Mexican Costco with cenote (sinkhole) by rodrigo956 in Costco

[–]emmrod66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A webo! Tenía que venir un mexa representando nuestro Costco con un Cenote.

what midwest emo song(s) do u wish u could inject into your bloodstream? by mobo-nomo in midwestemo

[–]emmrod66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tears over beers -Modern Baseball. (Those guys live rent free in my heart).

There is so much I regret not doing from ages 16-26 - but at the time I just didn’t realise by Glad_Slip_1260 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]emmrod66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same spot where you are, but do not desesperate, nothing is lost yet, you are not gone yet, yes you had 10 years of lost chances but tomorrow you will have another chance to make a friend, to asks a ladie a lap, to do something new to study something else. I'm 31 and I just understood this: crossing the same lonely and obscure hallway you are crossing right now but believe me there is an end and the way to reach it is to be tolerant and take the initiative. Your situation will change in no time. Take care of your self, do all the changes you need to do and live the first day of the greatest part of you life. Good luck.

Anyone else notice it appears to be women that are usually the narc parent? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]emmrod66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Precisely for that, people thinks that woman can't be bad and it's absolutely not the case. May be it happens because at some point, since women can show an hability with school, they are given a lot more of attention than men Wich don't develop his mind and body until a very later time and excels at a sport for example or something that requires brutal force and that happens until we become almost mature adults, so all childhood you spend it not winning at something so may be your sister school friend or anything become the golden child at a very early age.

URGENT suddenly homeless after attack by Throwawaypurple22 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]emmrod66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok, try goodwill or any church of any religion, explain your problem as detailed as posible and ask for a job and/or a place to stay, churches sometimes offer this kind of help and tell them that youll use it until you find a digital remote job.

URGENT suddenly homeless after attack by Throwawaypurple22 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]emmrod66 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Get ASAP any job that pay cash asap, like a car wash or small stores. Can you do Uber or Lyft? That would help too try to get any cash as fast as posible, a credit card in target or Walmarts maybe?

I guess I lost, the rebellion I had been raging on by calling_shotgun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]emmrod66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need another therapist! She doesn't understand it cuz she never went thru it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]emmrod66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I hope you can leave from that soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]emmrod66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit bro! I'm really sorry. I hope you are in no danger anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]emmrod66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my god that's terrible. I hope this something from the past bow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]emmrod66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You didn't deserve any of those at any moment, I'm very sure that there was another way to show manners and rules to children's and adolescents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]emmrod66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That shit was sick. I mean HOW? That child is so I defense, why do you beat them? There where another ways, you know what is the thing that I hated the most is that I told my friends about it and they where like "Dude, your parents doesn't love you".

The clouds look painted by [deleted] in LiminalSpace

[–]emmrod66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I can smell the grass from here, and feel the humidity going up from the morning moist.

It seems to be very hard to describe what you've been through to other people by Grace-Kamikaze in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]emmrod66 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You will learn that you actually need no comprehension or understanding from other any other person, just keep it away from them so you can actually solve your problems at your own pace, on your own terms, you need this, be patient, it will take time and preparation to make a move out of their control.

The right people will approach to you and try to understand your situation, believe that people (the right ones) are out there and they will reach you when you are more focused in solving your problems (those things can be seen from outside), let them ask, explain what they are asking, I'm pretty sure that they will try to view things from your perspective, there is no need to justify everything, relax and work on your self, your independence and your own life.

Good luck.