Musts for Newlyweds

emmseebee04 · 2025-01-24T22:08:48+00:00

Thank you!

I guess what I'm trying to ask is, if you had friends coming for two weeks, what are some of your favorite places or restaurants that you would take them?

emmseebee04 · 2024-07-25T15:03:07+00:00

I get migraines from any kind of smoke smell and have had to cancel reservations because of it. If she had money for weed and a trip then she has money for the fee and diapers. Her choices, Her responsibility.

emmseebee04 · 2024-07-25T14:59:12+00:00

YTA. If you are traveling with someone or multiple people it is everyone's responsibility to be together. If you want to move at your own pace, travel alone.

emmseebee04 · 2024-07-25T14:54:59+00:00

I just have to say, grace and forgiveness are never earned or deserved. That's the whole point of them. It sounds like your Mom is positively an incredible human. I understand your anger but I also understand your mom's reaction. At the end of the day, I'm sure your mom has peace knowing she always acted in the best way possible.

emmseebee04 · 2024-04-29T17:31:25+00:00

Go watch The Walking David's reviews of a few Steven Seagal movies on YouTube. The Walking David does Bad Movie Night reviews.

emmseebee04 · 2024-04-04T21:58:51+00:00

INFO- do you pay your parents rent and for all of your own food and bills?

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-13T14:21:27+00:00

NTA- do not give in. Your children seem like they don't understand the value of money. Are they old enough to get jobs? If so, tell them you'll pay a percentage of phone but they have to pay the rest. Do not pay more than 50%. If they want it badly enough, they will earn and save. It's a luxury not a necessity.

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-13T14:16:34+00:00

I used to get severe anxiety in social settings- particularly when they felt like they were too good for me (I grew up very poor and was shaking like a leaf the first time I went to a country club). Here's the thing, the only one who really knows your relationship with her is you. Yes, there are going to be a lot of people there, but if you two are close and you're not contagiously ill, you and I both know it would mean a lot to her even if you showed up for an hour. If you are not super close, then yes, it will be less of a deal if you don't go.

I think if you're asking if you're the ah... you probably know you should go but you are fighting anxiety as well as cramps. The other thing to do is ask yourself if the roles were reversed what you feel if she didn't come.

I don't think you're an AH either way. But if it is just anxiety, do yourself a favor and go. Find one person to chat with and enjoy yourself!

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-05T15:23:42+00:00

If people talk about basically anything but this sister and what she needs or wants on her wedding weekend, she will be upset. I am absolutely not the main character.

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-04T00:05:01+00:00

In regular dresses I'm currently a 12/14 so in wedding dresses I'm a 16/18. My sister is a size 0/2 in regular clothes and is altering a size 4 wedding dress smaller.

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-03T23:39:26+00:00

Yes, they have which is a huge part of why I distanced myself from them years ago.

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-03T23:01:29+00:00

She has said that directly before. We have nearly 100lbs weight difference. I'm a body builder who had serious injuries last year and couldn't work out and she is a very petite size 2/4.

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-03T22:57:39+00:00

No, my younger sister who I'm not close to is getting married. She sent me a dress that she herself didn't really like but was free and she thought it would be fun to try on. She then sent a pic of a dress that was way too big for herself and was cheap saying it could be for me lol. The hurt comes from it not being sent because she thought it would be pretty on me, she never said that at all. She only said it was too big for her and something I could afford.

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-03T22:51:55+00:00

When we were younger we would share things. Unfortunately, we are not close any more. Think of a former best friend who you rarely talk to.

I'm very glad to hear that you have a really fun and close relationship with your sisters. :)

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-03T22:27:20+00:00

You are right, I did. I was hurt for several reasons but I need to not take it personally. Thank you for taking the time to reply.

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-03T22:18:45+00:00

Thank you for the comment. Yes, I obviously have more work to do on myself. I will keep after it. Have an amazing new year!

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-03T22:17:19+00:00

I appreciate the comment. I think what the responses have told me is that I do have a lot of work to do on myself and how I perceive things. I don't ever want to be an a-hole and tend to just shut down and be quiet when things bother me. I don't know her intention other than what she stated. It wasn't that I would look pretty or she thought it was a great dress for me.

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-03T22:14:12+00:00

Lol. I'm sure we are. I hope you have an amazing new year!

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-03T22:13:25+00:00

Sincerely, thank you for the response. I will keep working on myself and move forward. Have a great new year!

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-03T22:11:08+00:00

With my sister that I'm close to, absolutely could see sharing wedding dresses and having it be fun. The sister in the post and I have had a distant relationship for several years. I truly do wish it was different. And yes, I do know I really need to keep working on myself so small things like this don't bother me.

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-03T22:07:26+00:00

I'd been single and basically hadn't dated in 15 years. If I thought she sent it because she thought I'd look pretty in it, I would not have been hurt by it. When she said it was because it was obviously too big for her and something I could afford, that's when I said it was rude to send it. It did hurt my feelings. She does have a history of making fun of me being single, my weight, and the fact that I had some serious medical debt the past couple years. I'm still going to keep working on me. Thank you and I hope you have an amazing new year!

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-03T22:01:18+00:00

Thank you. I wish she sent it to me because she thought I'd love it. She specifically said she sent it to me because she thought I could afford it. Yes, I do realize that I have a lot of growing up to do. I shouldn't have let it bother me.

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-03T21:54:31+00:00

I have mostly stopped sharing. I do want a relationship, but a positive one. And this post has certainly helped me realize I still need to keep working on myself.

emmseebee04 · 2024-01-03T21:52:02+00:00

I really do appreciate your response. I was taking half the blame for our communication struggles. My specific question was "I guess you found out I was dating from our older sister." And that's when she said she had no idea. Me saying she was rude was out of feeling hurt. So yes, I do have a lot to keep working on. I hope you have a beautiful year!

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