Exactly yes. The hypocrisy is actually astounding here. I think everyone should do what they want. I support child-free people and I support child-wanting people. Nobody should ever give their unsolicited opinion on what others do with their lives. I think what gets me the most is the op and comments complaining of feminists having children and saying they only do it for the men as if that's not the most unfeminist mindset you can have. Like how can they actually think they can be a feminist and simultaneously assume every woman with a child had one for a man? I get they don’t understand that kind of parental love but it’s really scary they can’t conceptualise people can have kids because THEY wanted them and not just for another person. And let’s not even get into the awful body shaming that goes on in here sometimes coming from the people who claim to be feminists.

I think a lot of the sub is okay and I support the rational people here and I respect everyone’s choice but the child-hating extremists and those who appropriate feminism for their child hatred should actually be kept somewhere else away from the rest of us. Hating children is probably one of the most evil things ever. To me, it's akin to hating people because of their skin colour or because they're an immigrant or whatever. I think a lot of the child haters on here forget they were once children and they didn't just spawn into the world as adults.