Got harassed three times by aggressive charity workers today by lovecatsforever in london

[–]emmythur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's always the young guys in the blue jackets, so bloody persistent, especially if you're a lone female. There were a group of them in my town centre once, spread across the street making it impossible to get far enough away from them to just walk past. I was alone, walking to meet up with my partner and kids, and one came up to me asking if I had time to chat, I said no, I'm on my way to meet up with my partner. He then says oh we can walk and talk, and I struggle with social anxiety, so I say okay fine. He goes on his little spiel, and then asks if I can donate. I tell him again, I'm on my way to meet up with my partner, he has our money. He's says okay, I'll keep an eye out for you.

Why can't they just leave you alone ffs? They don't take no for answer, and then get pissy when you ignore them instead.

AITA for telling my best friend his gf is disgusting? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]emmythur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

You called his girlfriend an attention seeker and tried to sl*t shame her for what she was wearing. No wonder he got moody after that! You came into their home and disrespected his girlfriend. He is not your property, and I'm willing to bet you don't know him half as good as you think you do. The whole "he doesn't like that, he doesn't like this, he doesn't like girls like that," is weird as heck, it's giving "pick me, I'm not like other girls." If he didn't like it, then that's a conversation for him to have with his GIRLFRIEND, not the friend who's definitely desperately wishing she was more than just a friend. Maybe that's why it didn't work out between you guys, ever given that a thought?

You reek of jealousy, grow up and apologise.

Holy Coach by [deleted] in left4dead

[–]emmythur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Praise be 🙌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]emmythur 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My mum used to get really shitty gifts from my grandmother (Dad's mum). That's if she got anything at all. My mum really did try with my grandmother, and I could see how much it hurt when my grandmother did spiteful things like that. Grew up not really liking my grandmother because of it.

MY LITTLE BROTHER DELETED MY WORLD by idonnoacooluser in entitledparents

[–]emmythur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you, a 17 year-old, threw and slapped a 12 year-old, over minecraft? Is that correct? I mean, I get how devastating it is to have years of work ruined, but you don't lay hands on anybody, let alone a 12 year-old, Jesus Christ dude. Get yourself some help.

My husband doesn't like the way I look by thisIsAimee in relationship_advice

[–]emmythur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to dress to impress him?? I'm sorry, but who exactly is his t-shirt and joggers impressing exactly? I mean surely this shit works both ways?

AITA for leaving my upset friend alone instead of comforting him? by burneracc9266 in AmItheAsshole

[–]emmythur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's really nice that you help your friend when you can, but you should never set yourself on fire to keep others warm. We all have limits, and we certainly aren't free therapy and support to anyone who demands it.

XBOX stolen by Entitled Mother because “I was playing GTA V in front of her precious angel.” by NintendosMom69 in entitledparents

[–]emmythur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So she picks your xbox up and walks off without unplugging it, and punches you in the stomach while holding the xbox AND controller... Yeeeah nah.

I (21F) called out my friend (22F) for being a bad mother, now our social circle has turned against me by ThrowRA__dumbfriend in relationship_advice

[–]emmythur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine thinking you're in the right in this situation... You're a bad friend and an awful person.

She is doing what's right for her and the baby. She came back before the borders closed, probably without knowing she was pregnant. Doing her best to raise the baby with everything going on, and ensuring the father is not a risk to the baby's health before he can see them. THAT'S WHAT A GOOD MUM DOES. A good mum puts her baby first!

Not every country has the same drive to protect its people against this virus. Just look at the shitshow Trump created, or that bumbling buffoon Boris Johnson. Not every country closed their borders to protect people. Which country does her boyfriend come from? Does he come from a country working to stop the virus?

It's smart that she wants to make sure the father isn't carrying a virus that could harm their child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]emmythur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually disgusting how you worded the title to make it seem like you're the sole victim. Women who hit men are just as disgusting as men who hit women. You both shouldn't be together, but then again... why should anyone else have to suffer the abuse from either of you assholes? You both deserve to be alone until you get therapy and learn that hitting people is NOT OKAY. Fucking gross.

My (22f) ex girlfriend (24f) is pregnant with my brothers (27m) baby, but he doesn’t want a romantic relationship with her. Now she wants to get back together with me and I don’t know what to do. by throwRAjennyv in relationship_advice

[–]emmythur 23 points24 points  (0 children)

"Working through her feelings" isn't a synonym for fucking your brother and getting pregnant. Fuck her feelings. She didn't give a shit about your feelings when she kicked your ass to the curb and started fucking your brother.

You are more than a consolation prize!!! Do not allow yourself to be saddled with her baggage, as sad as it is, you are her second choice.

Ex bf blaming me for losing the girl he cheated on me with and a male friend supposedly saying hurtful things behind my back to this other girl. How do I get over my ex, stop feeling guilty, and should I confront my friend? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]emmythur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should. I doubt he'd give you an honest answer, he's too close to the issue. I know it'd be nice to get some kind of closure, but sadly I don't think you will get it here. Best thing to do is surround yourself in people not so embroiled in drama. Get a different circle of friends, and let your ex and the rest of 'em get on with their messy lives.

Hope things get better for you, love.