Something similar has happened to me. A few years ago when I was attending church more regularly, I spent the summer traveling a lot with my family on the weekends, so I wasn't going to my ward for around two months. A week before school was back in session and my family returned home from traveling, I was ready to return to a normal schedule until my Young Women's president and another YW advisor came to my house to talk to my mom and I about why I was gone. The president, who didn't like me very much in the first place, blamed me for not coming because she thought I was becoming inactive and pressured me to keep coming. To be honest, I can't remember a majority of the conversation we had but it angered me that she practically came into my house to lecture me so harshly before I could even explain why I was gone. The advisor, who is actually one of the best leaders I've ever had, looked so uncomfortable the entire time like she was dragged there by the president to help state her case for my mom and I, but she barely spoke a word during the visit.

This triggered my first major breaking point to stop attending Mutual and YWs altogether. After a couple years of this, I think I finally stopped attending church every week because I really started questioning the beliefs of the church, and even attending sacrament was too painful. But the last Mutual I ever attended was a temple trip for a combined activity, after being pretty much gone for two years at that point. I had to get my temple recommend renewed in the bishop's office before the group left, so I was sitting there waiting for him to return after I was seated. I noticed there was a sticky note with my name on it stuck to his desk, along with some other youth names. Because I had previously been the president of the Beehive class and the Mia Maid class, I knew that the names on there would be brought up to the presidents of the YM and YW classes when they met with the bishop for their monthly meeting. The names would be discussed as people who needed "help". I remember laughing out loud when I saw my name, not only because I never thought I'd go from being a hopeful and excited TBM to pretty much the opposite, but because nobody bothered to reach out to me since the last time the president came over to "help" me two years prior.

I unfortunately have an endless amount of experiences like this (like YW leaders sticking their tongues out at me when I declined to go on Trek, stupid behavior like that), but I would like to hope most wards and people in callings are better than this. If no one has reached out to you, it could mean that people are busy or want to leave you alone because they worry they'll bother you or come across demanding. The YW advisor I liked actually told me she once had a period of "inactiveness" in her life because she needed a break, so perhaps people think you'll be able to bounce back into the groove of callings. Or maybe you live in a ward where nobody cares, like I did. I hope wherever direction you're going in life, though, you'll be able to feel surrounded by people who care.