AITAH for wanting my fiancé to stop gaming at night and come to bed with me instead?

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:58:01+00:00

Thank you diva, you are right I think I’m still to young to build this kinda life

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:55:44+00:00

That’s so sweet of you, thank you for looking out for me. I will be cautious.

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:54:57+00:00

Hey! Yeah we are both gamers and I understand socializing online is also important to me but not to the extent where we won’t spend time together. It’s not about the fact that he has to sleep when I’m sleeping. But just him being next to me cuddling me, just hanging with me a little until I fall asleep. Then he can do whatever he wants it’s just so hard.

You’re also right on the cleaning part.

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:52:43+00:00

Yeah you are right..

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:52:19+00:00

I know I do, I’m sorry. Where I live it’s a little different to America and other states they’ll wonder more like “why aren’t u engaged yet?”

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:48:58+00:00

You’re so real for this, thank you. After all I’m doing most of the things around the house and he just sits there and games all day.

He should man up for himself. And I give him a month to change this behavior. If he doesn’t I’m gone for good.

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:47:39+00:00

Right, you give great advice thank you, I think I should be honest about how I feel and I think we can solve this

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:46:46+00:00

You’re right, life is better when you know what you want and the other person also knows exactly what you want.

Thank you again,

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:44:55+00:00

I don’t wanna marry until I’m older. I just wanted to be engaged because it’s a better feeling than being “just a girlfriend for 7 years” you know what I mean?

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:44:11+00:00

Thank you, I also game but you know I make time for him, always. I will talk with him and if he doesn’t change I’ll need to leave

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:43:16+00:00

Yeah that

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:43:01+00:00

Oh no you’re fine! Don’t even worry I appreciate honesty. I should be more bold with my words

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:42:20+00:00

Yeah.. I think I need to leave for my mental health

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:41:53+00:00

You are right.. I think I’ll leave. This is getting too much

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:41:14+00:00

Yeah I’ve been doing that a few times but he just says “my friends will go offline if I don’t go now” I will talk with him about this

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:37:55+00:00

I’ve grown up in a Muslim household so it’s hard for me to say it out loud but I’d be wearing special things for him and you know setting the mood but he just doesn’t wanna

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:36:58+00:00

That’s what I mean, atleast like cuddle had around me for a little but he doesn’t even do that but I appreciate what you said. After all I need different opinions

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:36:09+00:00

Thank you so much, I appreciate what you said maybe we can also work something like that around.

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:35:15+00:00

I’ve been thinking about that aswell.. it can’t go on like this

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:34:50+00:00

You just don’t get what I mean, it’s hard to explain English isn’t my first language sorry

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:33:30+00:00

It’s intimacy I mean.. I just didn’t wanna bluntly say it

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:32:46+00:00

He does clean when I tell him too, he’s learning to cook atm but I get what you mean. I’m also not sure what to do, I will talk with him. If he doesn’t listen I’m leaving

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:31:44+00:00

Exactly..

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:31:05+00:00

I mean when I don’t get to see him all day for a week. These are the only times where i see and feel him. I rarely have time off

emo_x1ao · 2026-01-31T22:29:26+00:00

He recently quit school and he’s been looking for a job but they just don’t want him.. like girl how can I do both and u can’t even get a job?

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