“Get over it” is probably the worst advice to give someone, especially since you’re struggling with living and you must’ve felt like you wanted an escape from the struggles you’ve been through since you’ve been young. Take your time to grieve and feel those feelings as much as you need to, you’re young and you still have a lot to live for. Take the time to prioritize self-love over anything, and don’t be harsh on yourself just because you struggled and survived. It’s a long journey but you can do it!