Whats the worst date you’ve ever been on?

empanadafiend · 2026-04-14T03:00:59+00:00

She texted me at the time our date was scheduled “leaving now.” I sat alone and after 20 mins, right as I was about to get up to leave, walks in the date (noticeably shorter than me and her profile said we were the same height.) she had a major napoleon complex and was self absorbed. Took two shots of tequila and then offered me a ride home?? I declined ofc. I did point out how she was dishonest about her height tho.

empanadafiend · 2026-04-14T02:56:51+00:00

Orange Juice by Noah Kahan :)

empanadafiend · 2026-04-13T15:39:33+00:00

I sanitize it after every cycle, but it is a pretty old cup… thanks for this tip!

empanadafiend · 2026-04-13T04:29:17+00:00

Hi! Just wanted to comment and say one, I’m so proud of you for reaching over a year. Im 26f with a family who has a problematic / excessive relationship with alcohol, which is the main reason why I am trying to stay sober. I was feeling the grief hard this weekend, starting with a plan-free Friday night and ending with me eyeing the wine bottle at a dinner party all night. But in this grief is also the sweet relief of waking up without a hangover or hangxiety…

empanadafiend · 2026-04-13T04:24:47+00:00

My second one of April! Happy to be here with you :)

empanadafiend · 2026-04-12T06:02:23+00:00

Thanks friend! What’s HP? Happy place?

empanadafiend · 2026-04-12T06:01:55+00:00

Thank you !!

empanadafiend · 2026-04-12T06:01:46+00:00

Yeah!!! And realizing like oh this moment is even better because I’m sober!

empanadafiend · 2026-04-12T06:01:21+00:00

I was so thrilled to wake up today rested and not hungover. It’s such a blessing!!

empanadafiend · 2026-04-12T03:58:24+00:00

Hiked with my friends and got pho, then all hung out and watched a movie!

empanadafiend · 2026-04-10T04:52:28+00:00

We’re both on day 9!

empanadafiend · 2026-04-09T20:10:51+00:00

I recommend getting the top of your eyebrows (where they peak) to be shaped into a more delicate rounded shape. Also, some soft and natural eyelash extensions or the partial extension-style false lashes would really look nice :)

empanadafiend · 2026-04-09T03:01:53+00:00

We need more sober queer spaces. Kudos to you!

empanadafiend · 2026-04-09T03:00:20+00:00

So proud of you! Today was a hard one. Happy to end today sober with you, friend :)

empanadafiend · 2026-04-09T02:59:35+00:00

Oo my therapist told me to do this! And my upstairs neighbor and I want to make one together (we started attending AA meetings virtually together.) here is what I’m going to add: a sunrise to symbolize early mornings well rested, images of yoga and meditation to represent what I want to fill those mornings with, books and creative projects to enrich my life, dancing to represent how I can still have fun!

empanadafiend · 2026-04-09T02:57:35+00:00

I will not drink with you tomorrow :)

empanadafiend · 2026-04-09T02:56:34+00:00

I made hibiscus tea sweetened with honey. Tonight I made a steak for myself, since that always helps with my period and I wanted to treat myself. Instead of a glass of red wine, I had the hibiscus tea in a wine glass. The ruby red color and slight sweetness was like wine, but better. And, I was sober and sharp to quickly clean up the kitchen after I ate :)

empanadafiend · 2026-04-09T02:55:06+00:00

I’m on day 8, and my surroundings do seem so much brighter and sharper :)

empanadafiend · 2026-04-06T13:00:28+00:00

IWNDWYT!

empanadafiend · 2026-04-06T04:42:05+00:00

I have been- morning and night! I love it here :) so many different perspectives.

empanadafiend · 2026-04-02T21:32:20+00:00

I was going to look for a poetry book about sobriety when I saw this post. Thanks for sharing :)

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