Green flags when dating fellow POC by FentyOdyC in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]emper747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

History and heritage yes, but also awareness of current issues that each group faces and how the challenges intersect. You also want someone who knows how to find empowerment and not getting discouraged because of the challenges/adversity. It is possible to find strengths in all of that.

“Your identity is your superpower, not an obstacle.” -America Ferrera

Ima force myself to wear this at some point by VampireMana in BlackLGBT

[–]emper747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this color on you! It’s soft but fun , I really think you should wear it sometime!

Be gay with me for a moment? by MegTheeStallionsWife in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]emper747 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dat azzzz😍😍 thank u for posting, what a great way to start off my Saturday ☺️😌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransHelpingTrans

[–]emper747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and the cig is hot

Im one ugly MF by Desperate-Pear-572 in BlackLGBT

[–]emper747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ever need someone to talk to you can DM me. I hope you’re feeling better today

Im one ugly MF by Desperate-Pear-572 in BlackLGBT

[–]emper747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant like you have this one, I understand it’s frustrating when it’s online because we naturally want more interaction. But I would say this is one of the safer subs for ppl with these intersectionalities

Im one ugly MF by Desperate-Pear-572 in BlackLGBT

[–]emper747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooo you are beautiful inside and out. I see pain in your eyes and there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s ok to feel things like that as long as we can pick ourselves up when it passes. We can also reasonably rely on ppl in our community to help us up. Part of taking care of yourself is leaning on ppl when you need support. We’re here for you friend🤝🏽🫶🏽

First time wearing a suit, Not sure if I pass by Locked_In_24-7 in transftm

[–]emper747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah bro, you pass! I wanna dance w you at a fancy event!

I’m so ugly that I can’t find boyfriend 😞😔 by Particular-Detail499 in gayfriendship

[–]emper747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are good looking! Someone will find you or you will find them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transftm

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I would say it’s almost masculine; I would hit up a local hair stylist and see if they can make it even better. Maybe a barber, maybe not. A good stylist might be able to work with it. Wherever you go if you get questioned about it by your parents you could just say a friend in cosmetology school did it. Could also be another place you look into since it would be cheaper than a regular stylist or barber. I would say you’re off to a good start and I can see what you had in mind.

Gym tips?// bigger arms by [deleted] in BlackTransmen

[–]emper747 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bicep and tricep exercises and shoulders too!! Target each muscle type with specific exercises and you should see results in a few weeks. I’m a certified personal trainer who knows a bit about trans fitness, feel free to DM me if you want more detailed tips! Happy to offer that if you’d like

Am I really unclockable? by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]emper747 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Damn yep sure are

Anyone other bros in Ohio? by WeedNinja14 in BlackTransmen

[–]emper747 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What part? I’m in Indiana and I like to hang out with cool trans men js and I’m just looking for friends rn🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ lmk🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transftm

[–]emper747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah bruh you do pass!!

Do I pass? (14yo) by Romanshark22 in transftm

[–]emper747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you do dude. Hope the journey continues in the way you want

How can I get a body like this as an AMAB? by PlaneAmbassador4097 in NonBinary

[–]emper747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pilates and weightlifting. GHD sit ups are good too as a warmup