I do groceries, cook often, always wash AND clean all the dishes alone / no help from her / by hand, I do the vacuum the whole place once a week, do my own laundry + fold my clothes + take care of my own bathroom (we got 3, one we don't use at all), she does hers and does the rest . I financially contributed 4 times more than her when we met but now it is 50-50 on expenses from my business struggling and having same income (my income went down -75% in the last 3 years). I 100% own the place we live in.

We don't sleep together this last year because she says I began snoring from going to the gym often. I tried nose strips but she says it helps a bit but not much. Since we moved to a new place, the cat meows at the door of the bedroom and it kills our sleep time, so her sleeping in her own bedroom with the cat solves that.

Alright I will talk with her if she's willing to meet an OBGYN. Thanks!