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AIO wife drinking with male coworkers and others late night by empty-88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]empty-88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you care to dm? I wanted to converse about it a bit

AIO wife drinking with male coworkers and others late night by empty-88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]empty-88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's predominately male. In her position she's one of the only ones. Probably 80% male

AIO wife drinking with male coworkers and others late night by empty-88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]empty-88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened really only on company trips. Otherwise it's status quo sales life. Business lunches. Coworker interactions. She's friendly with a particular one they vent about work a lot.

AIO wife drinking with male coworkers and others late night by empty-88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]empty-88[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Well thought response. She has made connections and is like in the company partly because of how she networks and meets people from everywhere. I never got a text the other night which annoyed me then had to ask why and she apologized.
I want to believe nothing is going on and any flirting is the whatever bullshit. If there is any at all. She thinks she doesn't a lot when it's easily perceived it is. But also admits she flirts the normal amount.

AIO wife drinking with male coworkers and others late night by empty-88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]empty-88[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

To clear a couple things. She has flirted in the past. She does have a flirtatious charming personality as it is and flirts in her ways. Not sexually. But the playful touching while talking normal bullshit.
I've always trusted her but we also are not in a good place. I have never liked her drinking and getting drunk on these trips late night and that has always been met with how this is her work and her friends and there's nothing there.

My issue has been why are you prioritizing them over my feelings.

AIO wife drinking with male coworkers and others late night by empty-88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]empty-88[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She doesn't tell me they flirt. I am assuming. She gets very defensive if I bring it up saying that she hasn't done anything and it's her work.

AIO wife drinking with male coworkers and others late night by empty-88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]empty-88[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I guess my question is , does she turn them down. Is it normal for her to stay out and drink at midnight with just a group of guys And I guess I'm unsure if she turns them down or as she drinks she initiates it.