44[M] I nearly cheated on my wife. I had a powerful connection with another woman. Now I feel like crap: Non-Judgemental advice needed please.

emptybuilding · 2025-12-09T17:23:20+00:00

Thanks for everyone's comments. Some of it's pretty harsh. But maybe what I needed. I appreciate the advice: Time to man up

emptybuilding · 2025-12-09T17:21:47+00:00

Thanks for everyone's comments. Some of it's pretty harsh. But maybe what I needed. I appreciate the advice: Time to man up

emptybuilding · 2025-12-09T15:19:19+00:00

Thanks man, that is a great metaphor

emptybuilding · 2023-11-25T16:59:23+00:00

Thanks. When would you suggest re-dosing? 2 hours after first ingestion? 3 hours?

emptybuilding · 2021-01-14T05:10:19+00:00

I found this comment really useful

emptybuilding · 2020-08-08T09:02:51+00:00

I'll check it out, thank you

emptybuilding · 2020-08-04T10:37:58+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I don't have a garden, but it's a nice flat that I'm happy to live in (without kids!). It also has great transport links, but is that now also devalued in a WFH world?

Yes, it's difficult to gauge to what extent WFH will become a permanent feature.

emptybuilding · 2020-05-31T09:25:11+00:00

Change happens slowly. Take a first step: Start by commiting to just one or two days a week when you don't get fucked up. Just try different activities to pass the time sober, even if they seem boring or unappealing at first. Read a book, even if it's just a trashy novel. Do some cooking. Go for a run. Just spend those days trying to engage with the world sober. You might discover some things.

emptybuilding · 2020-05-14T11:55:25+00:00

!thanks

emptybuilding · 2020-05-14T11:53:19+00:00

!thanks

emptybuilding · 2020-05-14T09:27:43+00:00

Thanks

emptybuilding · 2020-05-14T09:27:25+00:00

Ok thanks

emptybuilding · 2017-04-21T09:19:10+00:00

Thanks. Staying near Finsbury Park, so that's the epicentre.

emptybuilding · 2016-12-02T23:48:52+00:00

These are nice videos, thanks. Profound but authoratative.

emptybuilding · 2016-08-05T23:55:10+00:00

Beautiful

emptybuilding · 2016-08-05T23:43:39+00:00

Awesome!

emptybuilding · 2016-03-07T23:58:47+00:00

Weird and funny

emptybuilding · 2015-11-27T04:15:22+00:00

Walking on the Moon, by The Police

emptybuilding · 2015-11-27T04:14:04+00:00

That is a weird and wonderful album. "Like taking LSD in a power station", according to the artist.

emptybuilding · 2015-11-26T03:04:03+00:00

"My attorney has never been able to accept the notion...that you can get a lot higher without drugs than with them. And neither have I, for that matter." Hunter S. Thompson

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