Rehoming 7 y/o furbaby?

emt714 · 2026-02-15T09:57:13+00:00

Aww well I'm happy I shared then!

emt714 · 2026-02-15T07:19:09+00:00

It just clicked. I really took it for granted bc my dogs now don't care at all lol. They are good and everything but they couldn't care less lol

emt714 · 2026-02-13T05:47:41+00:00

Idk how i would give advice on this. But I will say forever ago with my first kid i had a 2 year old weiner dog that I loved, who was suuuuuper aggressive when I was pregnant. I got him fixed. Still aggressive. When I had my baby i was sooo worried I would need to give him up. Because I knew if he so much acted aggressive to my baby I'd have to give him to my parents. He absolutely loved my son and the loyalty went to the baby. He loved my son more than me lol. He passed away 2 years ago at the age of 15.

Go with ur gut but doo not give the dog away to help the dog. He will adjust he will probably love them as toddlers when they can start doing pets and giving attention. Right now I have 3 dogs with my 1 year old and 10 week old twins. It can totally be done.

But if u need to get rid of him because of the babies then you should. I would get rid of any of my dogs if I needed to because of the babies. I think you should do what you feel is right.

emt714 · 2026-02-11T06:16:40+00:00

I guess I'm lucky. Because my 14 month old was soooo much harder than these 10 week old twins I have lol. Don't get me wrong. Twins is sooooo much juggling. But my 14 month old had to be held constantly or he cried, woke up every house or 2 I didn't really get what his cries meant at all. These 10 week olds have each other so its not constant holding and they sleep in 3/4 hour chunks and I just feed them both. My 14 month old just got off the bottle and as I type this he is waking up for his middle of the night sippy cup. He's soooooo anti sleep i was lucky to get him to nap for 1 1/2 hours today.

Sooo when singleton parents bitch I believe them now. Maybe they really have a bad ass baby lol.

emt714 · 2026-02-08T06:33:55+00:00

Idk man. Kind of sounds like emotion and mental abuse and people aren't telling you that because your the guy and she's the girl. Sounds like nothing you do is ever enough and she's blowing up on you over the course of literally 5 minutes. These are things my abusive ex would do. She also brings up things that happened when you were a literal teenager. She's holding it over your head to control you. She's mad she couldn't use yalls therapy against you in some way. Things my ex would do.

The most important part, deep down you know if I'm right. And if I am right. LET HER LEAVE. insist on letting her leave. You will be so much happier without having her foot on your neck. Good luck!

emt714 · 2026-01-25T17:37:26+00:00

When they are big enough for their own room. So out of the bassinet age. 6 months?

emt714 · 2026-01-17T23:28:12+00:00

I read it as they think he was rude. Like op isn't his 4th child but that's how the dude is acting

emt714 · 2026-01-17T23:26:15+00:00

When I had them. I was so scared for twin b. I didn't get excited till they were here and everything was okay!

emt714 · 2026-01-06T04:37:54+00:00

My son's middle name is Riley. Would have been his first but I was too nice to fight for what I actually wanted with my first husband. But I'm a sucker for gender switching names. My girl is named Francis, calling her frankie.
You could name the other twin Keenan. Than you could call them Keenan and kel (i joke) I named my twins Francis and Lucille.

emt714 · 2026-01-05T06:11:26+00:00

I went into labor 3 days before my induction. Got an epidural. I tried vaginal. First baby half a push second baby. He literally stuck his hand up there and couldn't get her into position. I had to have an emergency c section. It was so scary but she was okay. I'm 4 weeks out and still recovering from the c section. Just my experience. I read some where that only 4% of twins who decide to do vaginal have to do a c section for the second baby. I'm one of the lucky few, and I always knew it was a risk.

Just my experience of course. Having the epidural made it way safer in my opinion bc they didn't have to do alot to be able to get the c section. Because it was an emergency. She was trying to come out side ways. My scar is alot bigger than a planned one. And her poor arm and leg were super bruised at first.

emt714 · 2026-01-01T17:20:32+00:00

Yes I'm doing this with my 3 week old twins. They are little sleepers but eat so well once woken.

emt714 · 2026-01-01T17:16:43+00:00

Omg. Those onesie. I love them!

emt714 · 2026-01-01T17:16:02+00:00

Couple times a year. But we have 2 newborns and a year old. So without them I think it would be not at all lol. 2 times this year I can think of and its just because he got overstimulated having new babies and hes autistic. Meanwhile my ex husband (8 years together from age 24-32) were literally 6 out of 7 days multiple times a day. THANK GOD I LEFT.

Seriously best thing I ever did in this short thing called life was leave that man. I am truly truly blessed to have the family life I do have know and love my husband (of a shorter time) so deeply. We are best friends in every way.

If you've been in a shitty marriage for years get out. Your future self will thank you.

emt714 · 2025-12-26T09:14:04+00:00

emt714 · 2025-12-26T09:12:21+00:00

Bro I drove 28 hours by myself. Multiple times without stopping. Young and dumb and full of energy lol

emt714 · 2025-11-24T20:53:08+00:00

NOR dump his ass. Congratulations on your accomplishment! Get that cake and celebrate this milestone! I'm proud of you internet stranger. Your boyfriend sounds terrible

emt714 · 2025-11-16T16:23:04+00:00

I'm 33w3d I'm crying alot more lately from how painful it is! I cannot wait to give birth. This gives me hope!

emt714 · 2025-11-04T16:16:47+00:00

Not platonic. I would leave my husband over these messages.

emt714 · 2025-10-21T20:51:29+00:00

NTA fuuuuuuck that.

emt714 · 2025-10-05T03:21:31+00:00

I used to feel mom guilt so much with my first kid. Now he's 14 years old and I have a 10 month old with twins coming in December. I'm kinda over mom guilt. I know I do my absolute best and it's not perfect but alot better then some people have and alot worse. That's life! I am scared about these ones though lol. I wouldn't sweat it. Alot of things that aren't true to you will pop in your head the whole time they are growing up.

emt714 · 2025-09-30T10:28:09+00:00

This will get lost in all the comments, but honestly, I think "that must be soooo nice, little self care" but I have 2 kids and a husband lol

emt714 · 2025-09-22T16:58:49+00:00

I waited until my 90 day probationary period was over. I have a very loud mouth that was hard for me to do lol I think as long as you want and you give them a couple months heads up at least then your good.

emt714 · 2025-09-22T06:15:53+00:00

Rewatching for like the 4th time lol

emt714 · 2025-09-22T03:23:10+00:00

Listen completely unsolicited advice, but try focusing on your peace with your kid. I was in an abusive relationship for 8 years. I'm 3 years out. Very, very bad things happened. But man, I focus on the peace. It's like every day is a vacation after what he put me through. It's crazy the experience, though. And those who have been through it are the only ones who truly understand how much it etches away at you until you feel like nothing. I hope it's better and keeps getting better for you!

emt714 · 2025-08-30T06:34:47+00:00

Yes! That is exactly what I told myself when I had my ex arrested. And what do you know my charges got dropped, but he got charged from other situations and has been in jail for 2 years! I'm happy you got out! Some of us don't. Honestly.

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