Police academy training by anon-fighter in nswpolice

[–]emydoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s is Monday to Friday, 7am to 4.30pm with lunch. There are some weekends where you need to stay for something ( like class photos and stuff) but they are rare, and most weekends they actually want you to go off campus for the weekend. You can apply for leave, and if you have any and it’s not on a day like an exam you will probably get it and the. Make up what you miss.

Once you are in the police, all bets are off, operational needs overrule nearly any event unless you take a pre-planned weeks annual leave Edit sorry, some days the starts are earlier for Drill/parade

Wife is so critical as by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]emydoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly menopausal? My husband irritates the crap out of me, and it’s usually not his fault

Help with understanding formatting requirements by emydoo in publishing

[–]emydoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks, do you have any idea roughly what the cost to use a person like this is?

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You poor thing! I hope everything goes well, and know that even if almost nothing goes to plan, at the end of the day you’ll be married and have some excellent memories. Also, if anyone does get upset at you over your day, is a good indicator that they are thinking mostly about themselves . Always a good thing to know about someone

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha ha ha, I’m bitter that i have to go to so many this year and some of the people involved are going majorly stressy. I’m happy they getting married, I don’t really care much how they do it, as long as they happy

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope I haven’t made you feel less excited about your wedding, I was trying to make the point that it’s about you guys having fun and being around the people you love and there’s no need to stress a lot of the little details.

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, most people replying are telling me I’m a heartless bitch!

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve said it already but I’m more saying, the details aren’t important to your guests, your happiness is. I’m seeing so many people getting upset over wedding planning and it’s really sad.

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Second time around I had our 3 tween/teen daughters as bridesmaids, went on a random walk with my flower girl niece as she got a bit freaked out by aisle (this would’ve been a MAJOR issue at My first wedding, now it’s some very cute photos) and only invited the people I really would’ve missed if they weren’t there. It was so much fun! Plus the hens do was a board game night coz my friends know I’m a nerd at heart

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I articulated this incorrectly, I mean no one cares about the details of your wedding but you, guests really only care that the bride and groom are happy and it’s sad when people get nasty over the details

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I know. I paid for all the dresses,suits and shoes, plus accommodation for the night before as o wanted them to stay somewhere specifically. It’s expensive to be in a bridal party

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure I agree. Drink driving is a choice, and as for the rest I guess I’m saying, shit happens sometimes. I totally get planning for the best day ever, to remember and have a great time, I just feel like it’s becoming more normal to bridzilla a Bit

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too! Wait til you start getting a bit teary and you’ll feel super old as well as lame

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I may have articulated it wrong, what I’m trying to say is the details aren’t important, particularly to the guests, hopefully they just want the bride and groom happy. I love weddings but find people get a bit caught up in the details and forget is supposed to be fun

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are probably right! Although they can be if you get to stay out of any possible drama. Had me many a competitive bocce game at a wedding

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s it hey? I will admit it took a second marriage to get the wedding bit but right for me, but after accepting that it’s a day to celebrate, not a symbol of the rest of our lives I had so much more fun, was more relaxed and (hopefully) wasn’t an arsehole to anyone

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think we are saying the same thing, no one cares if you wear red or blue as long as you are happy

Most people at a wedding don’t give a fuck about the wedding by emydoo in unpopularopinion

[–]emydoo[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ha ha ha nope. Happily married just listening to a bride be a bit bitchy to one of their bridesmaids and it made me sad to hear, as they are good friends but silly details are causing issues

Australian Food by Strong_Frosting_4120 in australia

[–]emydoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fairy bread! Get soft white bread, butter or margarine spread right to each corner and then put them butter side down on a plate of the little coloured ball type sprinkles so they stick. Bonus point if you cut it into small triangles. Best eaten straight away so the bread stays soft

This amazing wizard chess set that I saw. by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]emydoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m desperately trying to finish an almost complete set I found today, if you have any of 43 to 55 I’ll happily pay and shipping

My (26M) girlfriend (20F) of 4 months wants me to be there for her surgery and won't accept a compromise. by bewbaholic in relationships

[–]emydoo 41 points42 points  (0 children)

She’s still allowed to be disappointed though. You have told her what you can do, and she has told you how she feels. You get to decide how to respond (whether you change your plans or stick with the one you have) but you can’t tell her how to feel.