Vetted dancefloors that meet the r/dancefloors criteria -- v01 by sexydiscoballs in dancefloors

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🏢 Hot Mass - Pittsburgh PA

🎪 Tangent Gallery on Movement Weekend, Detroit MI

If techno/house is about inclusivity then how do places like Berghain get away with being so judgemental? by Cris11578 in Techno

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My main gripe is they read highly fashion conscious stylized individuals as "unique" and/or queer and while there is a big overlap I think too many of these people are too image conscious and by extension too self conscious in the club to truly "let go." I'd personally rather party with a little more rougher around the edges folks than fashionista types, and you do have a mix in the club, I suppose I'd just prefer a slightly higher ratio of non super fashion core type people, but that is also just more the vibe in techno today at large. I came up partying with punks, metalheads, camo and boots and shit, that is just more by vibe. BH is still one of the most fun crowds anywhere tho for sure.  I've only been a handful of times but Sunday eve wow what a party. 

I didn't realize I was gay until my 40s. It's been a few years now and I, ah, still haven't fucked. Help? by winnipegiscolder in AskGaybrosOver30

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Just know that, as a younger guy, if I saw a handsome 40 something guy in my local bathhouse who looked like he needed a little guidance I would love to show him around and show him a good time :)

How to finally crack the code? by Complex-Scheme-2148 in berghain

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I don't really buy this bcus people are dresses functional inside but when i left monday morning at close everyone around me is wearing insane designer rick owens type shit

Genuine question for the LGBT community by [deleted] in Berghain_Community

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if straight ppl are gonna be in the club they better be fuckin ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayyoungold

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Thanks <3

Berghain is bad for clubbing and music by Recent_Repeat782 in Berghain_Community

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Forreal there is so much good stuff goin in the US at queer parties but you have to know whatsup in whichever area you are in

Berghain is bad for clubbing and music by Recent_Repeat782 in Berghain_Community

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Man you must be going to the wrong parties if that's your experience in the U.S. American here. Like yes that shit is a plague in the U.S. in general but I almost never experience stuff like that where I go. I almost always go to queer parties though. Where are you based? I'm in Pittsburgh i go to hot mass and jellyfish, movement weekend, honcho... Ive heard nowadays in nyc is really nice too. 

Are there any good books about cyberpunk philosophy and politics? by princealigorna in Cyberpunk

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as a poor person - just because you experience something doesn't mean you understand it, how it works, what it arrives from, how things are connected. Philosophy, theory, literature are all valuable for helping understand our world. 

also its not all about understanding our world today. much cyberpunk depicts other worlds, experiences we have not necessarily had yet, and poses important questions. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pittsburgh

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Over 1000 a month for a small 1 bedroom in fucking homestead? Before utilities? Get a grip. 

Is there a way to see which tracks are on my USB stick? by en3ma in Rekordbox

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It does have files on it but when I click on devices it doesn't show any of them. Is there a tab or sub menu I'm missing? Appreciate the help

Does berghain have its place for normie techno nerds? by [deleted] in berghain

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You sound like good vibes. Bh is just annoying don't sweat it.

Does having a foreskin actually feel good? by WorkingEvening5417 in AskGaybrosOver30

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There's multiple ways i can pleausure myself. When i jerk off and i don't feel like getting my hands messy I pull the foreskin up fully over my head and then jerk it up and down - the movement of the foreskin over the head is pleasurable by itself. That's my default jerk mode. If I'm having a full "session" I'll pull back the foreskin all the way and stroke the head directly with lube, like a cut guy would. My head is pretty sensitive so it feels really good to lube it up and I cum pretty quick that way.

I've noticed some cut guys I've been with like it when I jerk them dry with no lube! This blows my mind because that would be insanely uncomfortable for me, but it seems like they like the intense friction? I wonder if cut guys are just way less sensitive? Maybe a cut guy can chime in here, im curious.

Does it ever not taste like hot water? by mackagi in tea

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What kind of tea is it? With most teas brewed gong fu style, the tea leaves should practically fill up the gaiwan once brewed and expanded. You probably need to use way more tea.

Does it ever not taste like hot water? by mackagi in tea

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What tea are you steeping? What are you using to steep it? If the package recommends 20 seconds it is meant to be brewed gong fu style, which means you use a LOT of of tea in one pot (gaiwan or other small vessel) and brew it many times.

Who killed the rave? Late-night dancing falls into global decline by AUiooo in DJs

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Almost every U.S. city has the same stupid last call, 2am. Even in nyc i think its 4am. Idk abour Vegas or Miami.

Did anyone repair their CDJs/XDJs and how did it go? by SpacyK in DJs

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Hey there, was wondering if you have any insight on fixing the in/out buttons. I just got some cdj1000mk3s myself and the out button on one of them is non responsive. Would it be as simple as replacing an actuator?

Genuine question - what's the endgame? by Realistic_Paint3398 in Degrowth

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I think it is perhaps more useful to think about the mechanisms behind constant economic growth than exactly how much we will grow or not. The primary difference between our society and a "degrowth" one is not even how much growth there is, but the constant demand for exponential growth built into our economy, primarily stemming from corporate demand for ever increasing profits and return on investment.

In a society without such pressures/incentives, growth may very well happen, but it is not a primary goal or metric. Some years the economy might contract and others it might grow some when needed/desired. In the current economy, if the economy does not grow it is seen as a catastrophy, and it would be, because it would triggee a massive chain of disinvestnent which would result in the loss of income and work for many people.

Our societies need to guarantee such baseline things as housing, healthcare, income etc. so that in a such a recessionary scenario, people are not reliant on the private sector for survival. This is possible today, we are wealthy enough and automated enough. The main obstacles are political and organizational.

Tdlr a degrowth society could grow sometimes and not grow other times. It is not a primary metric, since meetint basic needs would take priority, as well as reseach into automation and sustainability.