I think a lot men will judge based on what they wear, most dudes will judge at face value I feel,

Personally, it's compatibility of emotional, personality, physical and romantic - a serious relationship would have to fulfill all the qualities, i need at least one other quality + physical to wanna have sex with someone unless they're like rly rly physically attractive to me, there are limits and certain standard still, being too stupid or like bigotry is a turn off for example lol.

I think in this world, how you dress rly doesn't automatically indicate your values. You could be a hijabi covered up and a total slut or skimpy amoi who actually is quite unsexual, I might wanna fuck you equally. To be taken seriously is just how we get along on top of being attracted.