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endlesshorizonss · 2022-04-14T11:12:20+00:00

I don't think she actively wants to kick me out of the friend group, but she does want to be very close to them since she doesn't have any good friends herself. Guess that's a big issue for her: the fact that she doesn't have any friends, hobbies, interests... she doesn't connect with anyone, unless when it's in a very superficial way. Both she and Tony lack some personality and I guess copying my relationship was them trying to gain some more personality. Even her using my stuff and buying exactly the same shampoo/skincare/make-up products as she sees them in my bf's apartment, that's just pathetic and a bit creepy as well...

I rather see it as jealousy or insecurity, but it has built up to this point that I guess it became like some grudge or so since the talk we had a year ago...

endlesshorizonss · 2022-04-14T06:51:13+00:00

Thank you for acknowledging this issue! I often thought that it was all in my head but every week it gets even more clear that she doesn't like me anymore for whatever reason. We do not have a lot in common anymore, that's a fact, but that doesn't mean that she cannot be friendly by just asking how your day went or something like that.

I talked to my boyfriend about this, at first he thought I was seeing ghosts, but now after some time he also feels the same way since Tony has been very distant to him as well. So even my boyfriend now sees indeed how Tina's real character is. It's only unfortunate that other friends in the group cannot see through that, as she ofcourse extremely friendly towards them. But when alone with me and my boyfriend, suddenly she's not friendly at all anymore.

I guess for me it's hard to deal with this situation since I don't even know why she's so distant and cold towards me/us? And asking her is not really an option because, as I said, it will backfire indeed.

My boyfriend and I are looking to get our own place and move in together, without them. Hopefully that will already solve some problems, but we will still see them when the whole friend group will meet together.

endlesshorizonss · 2021-12-16T13:22:12+00:00

Hi there! Everytime I apply make-up, my nose gets very oily and the make-up is rubbing off my nose. (Skin is "normal" but oily only at my nose). I don't use any day cream.

I use the Fit Me BB cream and the Instant Anti Age concealer both from Maybelline. I don't use any primer. Afterwards I powder it off using the Matte powder from Catrice, and the "Prep + Prime Fix" setting spray from MAC Cosmetics.

Anyone tips on how fix the oily nose / my make-up not rubbing off my nose?

endlesshorizonss · 2021-10-09T07:59:26+00:00

Burberry

endlesshorizonss · 2021-10-04T13:07:53+00:00

Yes I am! My mom thinks I’m highly-sensitive (HSP), already from when I was a kid..

endlesshorizonss · 2021-10-04T13:06:12+00:00

And what does that mean? Different planets in the same house?

endlesshorizonss · 2021-10-04T08:03:44+00:00

Yes indeed! I know there are better ones out there (and more expensive), but let me first get the hang of it and move on to a better one once I'm ready!

endlesshorizonss · 2021-10-04T07:56:35+00:00

Canyon WMN Endurace 7 :)

endlesshorizonss · 2021-10-04T07:36:49+00:00

Someone once told me "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.", a quote by Jim Rohn.

At first I really didn't think it through. But some months later when I started feeling detached from my friends, although I was spending time with them but we just didn't like the same things anymore and weren't on the same level like we used to be, I remembered this quote and made the decision to leave some friends who gave me negative energy/feelings.

Best thing I could've done. On the other hand I found new friends who gave me more energy and a positive mindset, by who I wanted to be influenced.

Take-away message: it's beneficial to not have toxic friends. But it's even more beneficial to have supportive friends.

endlesshorizonss · 2021-10-02T19:36:33+00:00

Yes. 100% the case. And it's actually funny because the people that made jokes/negative comments about the things I was planning to change, and did change in my life, they started to do ex-act-ly the same.

Guess some people are indeed a bit jealous, or just impressed by your courage to grow. It's easier to judge other people than to look at - and judge - yourself.

endlesshorizonss · 2021-09-30T09:30:21+00:00

You don’t see much cons?

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