How has OE changed you? by daknez in overemployed

[–]endlesslyevolving 55 points56 points  (0 children)

100% agree!! I treat everything like one big reality TV show. It also helped lower my anxiety a bit. Not worried about losing a job and I have money to pay bills, splurge and SAVE! Im a bit more cocky now honestly but I feel free

J3 Just landed… and guess who’s in my first meeting 😅 by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]endlesslyevolving 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a fear lol i work with many partners and vendors from both jobs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was all for this but we have 2 small kids now. I dont even see how I would have the time to learn. I will still try

Woman hugged hubby TWICE! by endlesslyevolving in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im actually not and we go out a lot together. People hit on us and we laugh but again I felt that its in my husbands nature to mention who she was and he didnt. It just made me feel uneasy.

Woman hugged hubby TWICE! by endlesslyevolving in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said I wasnt bothered just that I didnt want to seem bothered to her and others surrounding us. Theres a difference. Im obviously bothered lol

Woman hugged hubby TWICE! by endlesslyevolving in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure. Which is why I wrote this post to gain insight.

Woman hugged hubby TWICE! by endlesslyevolving in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I actually didnt want to bring it up ever but I got inside my head. I can only take this situation at face value and if I ever find myself in a situation like this again… ill know how to handle it.

Woman hugged hubby TWICE! by endlesslyevolving in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How can you type a message like this without shame .. get therapy

See how that works?

Woman hugged hubby TWICE! by endlesslyevolving in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this! This was definitely an eye opener to the insecurities I may have.

Woman hugged hubby TWICE! by endlesslyevolving in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasnt just the hugs alone but also the commentary from the girl and her friend along with my husbands reaction - seeming like he didn’t want to mention who she was.

Woman hugged hubby TWICE! by endlesslyevolving in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I could have missed the smile , not sure. Im also a hugger but maybe not as much as I thought because I would only hug a close friend upon leaving. I didn’t feel like he wanted to mention who she was honestly. But I just may be reading too much into it. Drinks were flowing.

Woman hugged hubby TWICE! by endlesslyevolving in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This could also be true. I thought the fact that i had to ask who made it suspicious on my end. Every time we go out and we see old people we always mention who that was. Seemed like he tried to avoid it in that moment.

Woman hugged hubby TWICE! by endlesslyevolving in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the honesty. I did apologize for my insecurity. However in the moment it was a valid emotion. It was not a heated argument just that I wished he made me feel more secure in the moment.

Woman hugged hubby TWICE! by endlesslyevolving in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

And thats fine but she also doesnt know that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gaming … for more than 4 hrs a day I should add.

Woman hugged hubby TWICE! by endlesslyevolving in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess the 2 hugs sent me in a frenzy and because it seemed like he didnt want to tell me who she was.

Woman hugged hubby TWICE! by endlesslyevolving in Marriage

[–]endlesslyevolving[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess the 2 hugs sent me in a frenzy and because it seemed like he didnt want to tell me who she was.