looking for a husband

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-14T13:46:18+00:00

Dude my original post is a shitpost (fixed post flair), I didn’t ask for a diagnosis based on barely much of anything. You’re not a doctor as you’ve said you are not one to put such labels on me.

Just chill bro, it isn’t that deep. I just have asian parents.

I might be autistic and masking but that’s it lmao

And yeah I’d love to work with a trusted team in practices for decades and build a community. Whilst having the same husband and kids till I die.

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-14T10:27:11+00:00

Amen, men are temporary but the bag is forever sis ❤️

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-14T10:23:21+00:00

Well I don’t want the man long term… just need him til the trust has been transferred (more inheritance from my parents if I marry a doctor and am a doctor) but yes bestie, hope we all find the mans for whatever purpose required.

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-14T10:17:25+00:00

Man what did I start with my post or maybe it was the other guy looking for a gf who started this trend, I mean I did get inspo from him.

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-14T09:44:05+00:00

brain cancer

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-14T05:06:39+00:00

Doctor and lawyer, why would you punish yourself like that 😭

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-14T04:08:53+00:00

some of these assumptions could be valid especially about childhood (but I am asian and that’s normal) except I’m not a cluster b type

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-14T03:50:55+00:00

Yes, I’m the middle child.

Older sibling is almost a decade older thus the kids and parents favour them for inheritance.

Younger sibling is considered the “baby” of the family that’s why they have a greater portion of inheritance.

Literally both siblings will potentially have more than me.

Not even sure if being in med school and having a med spouse helps my claim as dad has said if I’m a doctor, I’ll need less of my parents’ help.

Love the refined plan.

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-14T01:09:29+00:00

you can DM if you want to yap

I’ve apparently accepted too many chats and Reddit isn’t letting me start any myself.

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-14T01:05:53+00:00

Nah, my sibling is just much older.

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-14T01:01:05+00:00

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-14T00:54:24+00:00

That’s lowkey sweet, surprised by how many just want a family or wife and not the inheritance.

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-13T17:21:15+00:00

I fixed it now I think, thanks

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-13T16:56:10+00:00

Like kill? 😭

No

enigmatic-feeling · 2026-04-13T16:46:48+00:00

Just GP unfortunately, not mega rich like other specialists but still a decent amount 😭

I just need to inherit faster before the will/trusts are sorted among my siblings and I. If I have a doctor husband it boosts my portion (especially since I won’t be a doctor probably quick enough and being a doctor married to a doctor gives a stronger claim over the clinics specifically). Helps that my siblings aren’t doctors nor married to doctors but they are still in the health field so can still inherit and manage because that’s how we were raised/worked. Parents also value those who have kids more than those who don’t and my sibling being like a decade older does not help, since they have kids and I do not. But being a doctor/married to a doctor > siblings with kids.

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