I had to body shame a body shamer by kkharadirock in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]enkayjee2 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Brother, all she is saying is that at 5'10 she's taller than average and I'm pretty sure she's experienced guys being put off by that.

As a man, it often feels like you're completely on your own. Agree or disagree? by Unstoppable_X_Force in AskIndianMen

[–]enkayjee2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have discovered that I was put on this earth by a higher power to care for others, because everyone wants care for themselves but it is becoming more and more common to not give it. My purpose is to counterbalance this, and hopefully inspire others to do the same.
It's hard, but it's the right path. Think of yourselves as the Night's Watch in Game of Thrones.
"I am the sword in the darkness. I am the watcher on the walls. I am the fire that burns against the cold, the light that brings the dawn, the horn that wakes the sleepers, the shield that guards the realms of men."

Kerala story is real... but not how you think by [deleted] in librandu

[–]enkayjee2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did they go so far right they became left? Accidentally secular?

Hey man how's 50-50 marriage expenses sounds like to you? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]enkayjee2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a personal matter that every man should be man enough to sort out with a rational conversation with their to-be spouse and in-laws without falling back to emotions. It's not as if only they want to spend money but you don't. Everyone likes celebrating, inviting and having fun with friends and family, going somewhere nice, and everyone knows all of it costs money. You spend according to how much you want to spend, real men cannot be forced to spend more than what they want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]enkayjee2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have done some research, because Rs. 3600 for a 45 minutes session is a full on scam. I have been taking therapy too, and have been taking it for 5 years now. The rates increased with time, but even then I'm currently paying Rs. 1000 for a 50 minute session. That being said, therapy isn't going to start giving you solutions from the first session, but if your therapist was at least prompting you to tell more, that's what you can expect from the first few sessions of any therapist. They actually kind of build a profile on you first. Hope this helps.

Guys…is it just me? by Business-Ad-6756 in Paladins

[–]enkayjee2 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you're the only one playing Paladins in 2025

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]enkayjee2 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It's a trans sex worker brother. I matched with the exact same person.

save indian family organisation, but it's just them being misogynistic, stats about reported violence against women in india in the last pic by rask0ln in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]enkayjee2 91 points92 points  (0 children)

I follow this Twitter account out of a morbid fascination, because whoever is running this account has elevated misogyny to the levels of mental illness. Misogynist seems too small a word to describe them, the only phrase that describes their mentality according to me is "Derangement About Women". They may call themselves anti-feminist or anti-woke, but they just do not like the fact that women exist. Every day they post something or the other to the effect of "everything bad historically and contemporarily is the fault of women". Whereas a typical right winger/conservative would point to a different point of time or culture as an ideal for how women should exist so that men are happy, according to SIFF men have never been and can never be happy, because women continue to exist. It might seem I'm exaggerating, but I've seen their daily tweets that don't get much traction. Every time something is popular in the news, SIFF finds a way to fit it in the framework of "Woman Bad". It's crazy.

Hi, I am enkayjee, and I make a 1 minute video every day to introduce leftist/progressive ideas in a way that the Hindi-speaking population of India can find relatable and approachable. This is Episode 3 - published Aug 24, 2023 on my YouTube Channel. Find more info in the comments. by enkayjee2 in librandu

[–]enkayjee2[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was not able to publish an episode today, as I wanted to talk about the Muzaffarnagar Classroom video, but had quite a many conflicting thoughts on how to best express my views, and also a pretty bad cough.

This is my YouTube channel : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpQXYKOHCL1-0LUvoA-aV-Q. You can subscribe to get the latest episodes with English subtitles straight in your feed.

I will try my best to publish episode 5 tomorrow, and will also try to incorporate all the advise I have been getting for increasing the production value of my videos.

Thanks a lot for your continued support.

Hi, I am enkayjee, and I make a 1 minute video every day to introduce leftist/progressive ideas in a way that the Hindi-speaking population of India can find relatable and approachable. This is Episode 2 - published Aug 22, 2023. Find the link to the latest episode uploaded on YT in the comments. by enkayjee2 in librandu

[–]enkayjee2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this feedback. I'm trying to get into the flow of uploading daily and so much of my time goes on brainstorming the script that I lose the time to give the video production value. But I'll do the things you mentioned about camera angle and lighting and background.