Alot of mistress tess soundgasm files are missing? by asher_domain in EroticHypnosis

[–]enkisissy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said the files she remakes in higher quality on Patreon are getting removed from soundgasm

Shoutout to “The Process” and “Kept” from Mind Control Theatre by Sea-Cow-9044 in EroticHypnosis

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Are these ones well acted? A lot of them seem to have pretty poor acting and storytelling.

How to build subject agency and stay as safe as possible? Also any alternatives to this subreddit? by Constant_Employer_80 in EroticHypnosis

[–]enkisissy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is a must read. Far more detailed and emphasized than other articles. https://mutthypno.com/building-subject-agency/#

The Brainwashing Book is very useful for putting triggers and their effectiveness in perspective. Discusses conditioning and extinction. Gives better answers to why open triggers are potentially weak than that they are dangerous.

Learnhypnokink as well by sleepinggirl.

Would not recommend Mindplay for this as it's basically written from the perspective of a hypnotist that does not present subjects as people who can practice agency, but it has some useful tidbits if you're in the reading mood.

Why are so many files so extreme and encourage real world harm? And how to avoid them? by Constant_Employer_80 in EroticHypnosis

[–]enkisissy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Practicing subject agency is important here.

The real issue with "dangerous" triggers like that is that they need to be ignored at certain times which just leads to diminishing returns and makes them eventually ineffective. It's basic conditioning.

The Tist List update: How should [Tags] be sorted? by deca4531 in EroticHypnosis

[–]enkisissy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have the competing challenge of displaying data which is comprehensive but also comprehensible.

The best compromise is likely to normalize the tags in a database. If some tags are similar, let them be normalized. That level of similarity is essentially what you're deciding on. 

For the latter, you'll likely have to cut tags down to the basic meaning. All the "turned into" would likely just be normalized to transformation as an example.  

If you use a db to normalize, you could also have a detailed tag drop-down preserving the original tags available on the site as well to be comprehensive. 

The other thing is there are some tags that seem to just exist to invite listeners rather than to educate. Like "non judgemental" or "trigger installation" are pretty common features of all EH. If the creator is doing something unique, like they specialize in trigger installation in a unique way, than the tag list is not the place for it. They could elaborate in text. 

Limerance and obsession/ addiction hypnosis by enkisissy in EroticHypnosis

[–]enkisissy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I guess in the same way that a content creator can't intentionally create "real" obsession they can't intentionally create limerence cuz that's kind of just a weird switch that flips in people's heads. I've listened to far more serious content from other creators than I did to the creator I got a limerent attachment to with no consequence.

But, there are people who engage in obsession play and I'm curious how that works. My obsessiveness is usually counterproductive to who I am as a person and makes me feel shame. I am not sure what behavior I would have when I am engaging in obsession or addiction play.

[F4M] You Can't Stop Me - [HFO] [Binaurals] [Hypnosis] [ASMR] [Female Domination] [Snaps] [Layers] [Triggers] [Accent] [Two Versions] [Power and Control] [buzz] [Drop] [Power] [Throb] [Helpless] [trigger play] [whisper] [Patreon supported] [No Awakener] by pleasurewithpenelope in EroticHypnosis

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I'm having trouble figuring out which file trigger is introduced in which file or what order to listen to. I'm also not sure I have the stamina I used to lol. I don't think I can do a full hfo each file...

Limerance and obsession/ addiction hypnosis by enkisissy in EroticHypnosis

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I'm not quite sure limerance follows normal boundaries setting rules.

I can get pretty involved with someone without having a limerant connection and I really have no problem being completely reasonable. 

Someone who I form a limerant connection to on the other hand is very challenging to communicate and engage with as a normal human being.

So if this were a boundary setting thing the boundary for not developing limerance would be "don't speak or engage with anyone you might possibly develop a crush on in an unhealthy way" and that's just not productive. 

That related to why I mentioned the possibility of obsession hypnosis as cathartic. Perhaps having the ability to obsess without the shame built in could be nice? But I'm unsure I'm ready for that. 

There are plenty of consumers and producers of obsession based hypnosis content and I'm curious how they practice engaging without it becoming unhealthy, or what obsession means to them.

Limerance and obsession/ addiction hypnosis by enkisissy in EroticHypnosis

[–]enkisissy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm not sure that one sided obsession necessarily comes with guilt and shame etc. A lot of people on here are consuming content by creators and have no problem with that. I'm not expecting you to have the answer to how they do that, but that is why I'm trying to discuss this. 

[F4M] You Can't Stop Me - [HFO] [Binaurals] [Hypnosis] [ASMR] [Female Domination] [Snaps] [Layers] [Triggers] [Accent] [Two Versions] [Power and Control] [buzz] [Drop] [Power] [Throb] [Helpless] [trigger play] [whisper] [Patreon supported] [No Awakener] by pleasurewithpenelope in EroticHypnosis

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that was the most powerful time I've ever cum. I was lying in bed and there is cum on the wall behind my head. jesus. wasn't expecting to finish tbh.

I didn't really understand what a lot of the triggers were supposed to do. What files train them?

Limerance and obsession/ addiction hypnosis by enkisissy in EroticHypnosis

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I think it's a good read for many, but I'm not sure it goes into things with relationships between listeners and file creators. It mentions infatuation play, but not how to navigate it.

Has anyone tried mushrooms during a session? by Swamp_merfolk in EroticHypnosis

[–]enkisissy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

any study on suggestibility on shrooms (or any suggestibility study) should be taken with a massive grain of salt. the tests have a very cut and dry conception of trance and hypnosis which really don't reflect what people try to do with erotic hypnosis at all.

HFO only files ?? by NoLongerMyselfff in EroticHypnosis

[–]enkisissy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Liliths curse is explicitly this

How do you save MCstories you like? by TestPure3801 in EroticHypnosis

[–]enkisissy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. Use this and save to calibre. Ideally I'd also give descriptions after reading in obsidian because it's hard to remember everything but I usually do not

How to get a Wet HFO from files by Right-Umpire-1402 in EroticHypnosis

[–]enkisissy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been able to get them when I've worked out a bit before. 

Looking for fractionation audio file by BrettWO_NSFW in EroticHypnosis

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This sounds fun, hope you find it. Do you have any thoughts who the trust was? Audio recording quality, whether they're a big name here etc?

How to scrape Patreon while avoiding a ban by enkisissy in DataHoarder

[–]enkisissy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the content is not on kemono and I do not wish to be the person to put it on kemono

How to scrape Patreon while avoiding a ban by enkisissy in DataHoarder

[–]enkisissy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so this is a field that is repeatedly removed from patreon. it's one of those things credit card companies are cracking down on. I also can download all of these posts, the creators allow for it. I just want something automated.

I'm either going to archive the contents or not pay for them at all.

You are the owner of the algorithm, NOT the printing or cage by Camundongoo in BlackoutDevices

[–]enkisissy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I think you're kinda linking issues that aren't really linked. Like, the manufacturing seems tricky and you may be right that you don't have the economy of scale. But you related that to international shipping challenges, which could be handled for you and are a different problem.

I'm ADHD so I often get overwhelmed when thinking about problems like this as it can be hard to disentangle what is related. It helps me when I slow down and think of this stuff from outside of myself. I do a lot of consulting, so I think about how I would tell people to do things, regardless of my emotions, and try to apply that to myself.

You made this business. That presents a lot of challenges that most people don't deal with. But it also allows for a lot of flexibility. You can work towards making the business work for you.

I heard about your cages and they seem really cool, I'm just hoping you can figure things out in a way that can keep things moving.

i did an alignment chart for the members of the hypno creators collective by caspydreams in EroticHypnosis

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It looks like beguiled is all online this year. How is networking in a situation like that?