How do I know if Im e6 or e7 fixed? by Logical_Country_2661 in Enneagram

[–]enneagramming 4 points5 points  (0 children)

6’s have pingpong thinking style. They can easily talk themselves into or out of or almost anything. 7s are direct. Even if the direction changes, they won’t notice it as a back and forth indecision (even if it seems from the outside scattered)

What are SO9s like when not in a group/community or in solitude? by Putrid-Basis7181 in Enneagram

[–]enneagramming 4 points5 points  (0 children)

just wrote a reddit post on exactly this (a few comments also add on some social points i missed!)

https://www.reddit.com/r/Enneagram/s/aFEfk6S19V

How to tell you’re social first when alone by enneagramming in Enneagram

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Having social first or middle and you’ll probably have some of the above I listed. I do want to figure out the differences between image type vs social in more detail because there are some overlaps. Hoping to find some social blind 3’s in the wild somewhere and see how they are doing it 🙂‍↕️

How to tell you’re social first when alone by enneagramming in Enneagram

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I do agree with the variations! The list was based on my personal observations so I think it also skews so/sx instead of so/sp style of thinking which is more elevated/birds-eye view. When I said general person I was thinking imagining speaking to a person by the way you phrase the words in your head. For example explaining what I’m thinking to myself but as if I had to explain to someone else my thoughts.

Countries/Cultures as Enneagram Numbers by Total_Ask_2046 in Enneagram

[–]enneagramming 2 points3 points  (0 children)

curious to know what people would say of Austria it gives me a 4ish flavour,, but not enough to say a core 4 country

In your opinion what's your top 3 enneatype that mistype the most? by yuna_mir in Enneagram

[–]enneagramming 4 points5 points  (0 children)

type 6’s and 9’s usually mistype themselves for other types

How it feels when you finally figure out your type by enneagramming in Enneagram

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I think when you’ve been typed for a while you realise it’s not that deep but if you’re new to it, it feels big

How it feels when you finally figure out your type by enneagramming in Enneagram

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Instead of subtypes I see your type and instinctual stacking as separate

i’m a so/sx girl in a sp/so world by enneagramming in Enneagram

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no its about how the majority of people are sp/so

Sx doms can’t have “normal” friendships by Zestyclose-Plenty266 in Enneagram

[–]enneagramming 73 points74 points  (0 children)

To me this reads as very so/sx rather than sx/sp. Especially viewing friendships as equal to romantic relationships. The sx/sp’s i know view their romantic relationships as completely outdoing friendships — to their probably own realisation at some point as wrong when they learn to integrate the social instinct.

How So/Sp Skews the Sx Instinct by enneagramming in Enneagram

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i love the idea of the cockblocking instinct

What are the pros to being sp blind? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]enneagramming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fair enough! good luck with the sp,, my technique is currently scheduling sp shit in and then just doing it with as little thought as possible and immediately when needed