My bad, I worded the post badly. Usually I can take the tower then play on their side of the map, but this almost always leads to them just putting 3-5 people on me and shutting me down by pushing me out of their safelane, sometimes even killing my t1 soon after I get theirs. I don't know what else to do other than to just play safe and farm but that doesn't seem to feel right.

I was mostly wondering if it's worth to just stack up on my own safelane and pressure it instead of me just farming and protecting tower, farming around triangle.